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"Marriage in Crisis? Get the tools to fix your marriage problems step-by-step with relationship expert Stephen Hedger"

If you have been to marriage counselling and it's failed, or you have tried to fix your problems without success, this unique service is for you.

15th of September 2019

Frustrated couples go round in circles suffering, totally unaware of the simple steps they can take to save their marriage.

What created your problems? The reason the work Stephen does is so successful is because he does not try to fix the couples presenting problems because their problems are always a symptom of a deeper issue in the couples dynamic. So Stephen works with the couple to solve what created their problems because this is what will lead them to lasting changes.

Testimonial: Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of, home became quite hostile. The results have far exceeded our expectations. Stephen appears somehow to have re focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around. Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him. Tim & Sue, Banker & Housewife

Couples can feel their marriage is dying
and recovery is impossible

Couples can feel very stuck because they have tried and tried to make their marriage work. Getting through to their partner seems hopeless, some have even tried marriage counselling and that hasn't worked either. They don't want to stay in a failing marriage, but breaking up their family feels wrong too.

It's totally normal for an individual in a marriage to feel their love for their partner has died for good. The love is only dormant because they have detached emotionally to protect themselves. Teaching the couple how to reattach is key to getting the marriage back on track.

Thankfully we are seeing most marriages can be saved with the right focus, but many individuals in their marriage can feel their situation is hopeless and give up far too soon.

Typical questions are:

  • It is possible to save a marriage that has been emotionally and sexually dead for years?
  • It is possible for the love to come back?
  • Is it possible to stop the rows and the power struggles?
  • Is it possible to recover from an affair?
  • Is it possible to communicate to your partner and be understood?

The answer to all these questions is yes.

Most couples in Stephens programs all felt their marriage was dead and had tried other counselling and therapies without success. Stephens unique approach has helped 95% of couples successfully reconnect, today they have the knowledge they were missing that today keeps their marriage safe.


Stephen Hedger offers his clients a powerfully successful approach to fixing their marriage problems

The reasons couples struggle to fix their problems is because of 3 key factors.

  1. They are limited by what they believe is possible.
  2. They don't know what to do to fix their problems.
  3. They don't know how to keep the relationship alive.

The result is they are trying to fix their problems with what they think will work. They keep getting the wrong result and so assume the problems are impossible to fix, or they are incompatible.

The route to success is helping the couple learn what will really work. You will experience this live in your sessions.

How is this different to traditional couples counselling?

The main difference is a defined strategy based on a clear plan that's created so the couple can track their progress.

Men specifically like this approach. The plan takes the couple from where they are to where they want to be in easy steps. This all takes into account the way men and women process information totally differently. Men generally are not good with feeling based chats.

Men want to know what to do to fix the problem(s)?

Note: The past only becomes important and is explored if it's clearly blocking the couples ability to create the outcome they desired.

The process is educational because the couple will be unaware of the key factors that took them from love to destruction.

Much of the problems couples face is due to the significant differences between men and women. When couples are taught these differences their expectation shifts as they both start to appreciate how different each others world really is.

The start of all work is not focused on the couples problems as this will make them feel worse at a time when things are bad enough. The focus is on rebuilding the foundations of really understanding each other.

This is effective because it shift the couple away from their problems and towards what they can do to feel better. This creates confidence as the couple learn what do that genuinely supports each others needs.

Rebuilding the foundations is critical because it rebuilds trust and respect. With trust and respect the relationship will die.

Stephen shares his story

Without strong foundations the couple will always struggle

When couples learn what to do that builds powerfully strong foundations they can quickly change their relationship and this is the start of how I'm getting fast, lasting results.

  • Couples that were arguing learn how to understand each other.
  • Couples whose intimacy had died were reconnected.
  • Individuals that fell out of love, successful reconnected.

These stories and many more are typical once the couple learn the foundations that lead to success.

The foundation consists of many factors. Without these key factors the relationship will always struggle and for many fail.

Leaving a marriage without this knowledge can cause future repeat of the same problems...

So what are the foundations that are creating
success for so many couples?

Below are a few of the critical factors that make up the foundations
that pulls couples back from the edge of divorce

  • Freedom to be who you are

    Most people with relationship problems lose a sense of who they are as they try to cope with their problems

  • Differences between the sexes

    Not understanding how your partner thinks and feels will create massive problems. Men and women naturally see the world very differently.

  • Effective Communication

    Couples with problems can really struggle to communicate with each other. Understanding why and how to correct this is critical.

  • Understand the importance of needs

    Understanding and meeting each others needs is critical. Most couples have no idea how to do this and this leads to a loss of trust.

  • How to grow closer from conflict

    Growing closer from conflict is the fastest way to rebuild trust and respect the no.1 problem that leads to divorce.

  • How sexual connection happens

    Sexual connection struggles if the couple don’t meet each others needs. When the needs are not met the trust dies.


95% of clients working with Stephen have achieved success in 2013. Learn what his Marriage Breakthrough Program can do for you in 2014.

Clients have been kind enough to share their experience to help you see there is hope


Dear Stephen

With your help, we got to understand each other and from that we could defuse tensions that existed in our own minds, not necessarily real for both of us.

Working on our relationship never stops, but thanks to the help we got through working with you, we are in a much better place, and a place that now will hopefully require only us to discuss, understand and resolve.

Thank you.

Everybody, you can’t always solve it yourselves. So if you need guidance, Stephen is probably the best chance you have of cutting to the quick and saving the good you know you have but need someone else to voice it.

Thank you Stephen. We are fine. We are in love, and we are growing together.

Phill and Peijie


I wanted to write to say thank you. There has been a huge turning point in our relationship. We have both worked really hard at following your advice and I have started to allow myself to get close to D physically.

From where we were a few months ago – with the house on the market and divorce lawyers consulted – to where we are now feels nothing short of a miracle. We both realise that there is still so much love and so much worth saving. It was just all disguised under fear, anger, resentment, loneliness and feelings of disconnect and hopelessness.

Your skill as a coach is very special. Anyone who has tried traditional counselling and failed (as we had) should definitely try you before throwing in the towel.

With very best wishes

Grace – London

I was on the verge of breaking a 4 year relationship

At the beginning of the year my relationship was at such a low point I was on the verge of breaking a 4 year relationship which left me in a state of anguish.

As a last ditch effort I made an appointment with Stephen Hedger, admittedly not holding out much hope?

Much to my surprise after as little as three meetings I found that there had been a marked improvement in my relationship and that I was fundamentally a lot more positive in salvaging the situation of hopelessness I felt I was in.

Stephen Hedger communicated with clarity and provided us with the tools not only to fix problems today but tools to fix problems for tomorrow.

I am now very happy in my relationship and look to the future with optimism.

Charles and Jane (names changed to protect their privacy)

I had an affair and thought I had lost her...

Mutual resentments that had built up over time led to each of us seeking attention and reassurance from people outside our marriage. At the beginning of our first session, my wife and I were uncomfortable in each other’s presence, but Stephen got us talking about why we had come: because we wanted to put the past behind us and sort out our marriage. After a few sessions, we already felt much happier and more secure with each other, I now feel like I understand my wife’s past, present and future.

Thank you, Stephen. Without your help, I don’t know where we would have been.

Thomas, London


Our relationship had become passionless

Stephen has been invaluable in rebuilding our relationship. We loved each other and had tried counselling for 6 months but with no progress. The intimate side of our relationship was non-existent. Within six 6 weeks we were back on track and making plans for our future which looked exciting again.

Sarah & Andrew London


We were planning our divorce...

During the two hour session Stephen took us though a very different understanding of our relationship. What we learnt really opened our eyes, suddenly we were able to understand each other in a way we had never considered before. We both agreed after the session that divorce was a mistake and with what we had learnt there was hope.

Rachael & Richard London

Breaking through their initial problem is half the battle

How do the couple ensure the changes will last?

  • Daily Practices

    All relationships need feeding. If the couple are meeting their needs whilst giving each other what they really want the relationship will grow.

  • Quickly repairing the relationship

    The couple will be given the tools to enable them to repair the relationship fast when problems strike. This keeps resentments down and pleasure attachments up.

  • Your partner comes first

    Couples learn how to do this so it works and becomes part of their relationship. Men and women need this differently and it’s critical to learn how.

  • Build a compelling future

    Once the couple have rebuild their trust and respect for each other. From this position the couple can craft an exciting future together.

  • Clear communication

    Once the couple understand how to communicate they are free to share and explore each other in ways that will lead to a deeper understanding.

  • Keeping the passion alive

    The couple will learn on their journey how to spark the passion in each other. This becomes easy once the foundations are in place.

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About Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for consistently and naturally saving marriages from divorce in weeks without the need to create changes that are short lived.

Disclaimer: Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on the Stephen Hedger Marriage Coach website/s are proof of our success but results may vary from person to person.

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