As a young man I had never questioned this idea before…

One of the most fundamental and foundational philosophies that will lead us to our future good or bad, is the power our thoughts can have over the quality of our lives and the direction it ultimately takes.

What I discovered changed my life forever and I wanted to share this with you today. A persons thinking actually has the power to create the life they end up living.

This was the kind of information that kept me awake at night until I had fully understood what it meant and how it really worked. You see I was just as skeptical as the next person, but I never believed I knew everything so I was keen to seek out what I didn’t know.

In fact today I enter every situation with the philosophy of, “…what don’t I know?”

Growing up I never really questioned how I thought, or the impact those thoughts were having on me in the moment and my future. It wasn’t until I hit an emotional brick-wall in my early twenties that I started to explore if I could actually experience life differently, you see I felt wrong, but I didn’t know why.

What I started to learn is we are all conditioned to live in reaction to the world we live in and this is a real problem. The challenge this reaction creates is we are not in control of our experiences and so our thoughts are created for us, leaving us out of control of not just that experience, but our future too.

These reactionary feelings and thoughts happen automatically, so for the most we don’t question them. We simply accept them as a part of who we are, our identity if you like. The truth is our thoughts have been created through the filters of our translation of our own life experiences.

As a young man I had never questioned this idea before, but I when started to learn that it’s possible to create the feelings I wanted, this lead me into a totally different way of looking at the world.

You see I discovered that there was actually a formula for how a feeling was created and there was also a process for changing it, if it was a feeling I didn’t want. Now this got my attention!

So I asked myself a question. If I could choose to experience life the way I wanted, what would I have to think and just as important, what would I have to train myself to NOT think.

What I learnt I will never forget. For my life to be successful on every level the thoughts I generated have to be consistent with my own true essence. This meant, when I was living in-tune with my authentic-self this would create a platform of happiness that enabled me to be creative and design the life I really wanted.

It was a revelation, because I was not even aware this was possible. Sadly many people are in the same place and are so seduced by their own programming they end up living a limited life without ever knowing.

Individuals and couples share with me how enlightened they feel as they learn how to interrupt the patterns of thought that were leading them to a future they would never consciously choose.

This not only affects themselves, it affects their relationships, children, families and their personal success on all levels.

So if you need to gain more control and create freedom to grow your authentic self, learn the steps to mastering how you feel today, join the many individuals and couples that are learning these skills one-on-one with me in Harley Street, London.


About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.