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This is Mrs Hedger it’s probably about time you met her.
Today we are going to focus on what you are grateful for and that focus is directed at your partner.
I will start with why I am so grateful for Mrs Hedger.
I am so grateful for Mrs Hedger because even if I had sat down and designed a person to spend my life with I couldn’t have designed someone this perfect for me. [Read more...]
What are the top three critical things a couple can focus on that will make 80% of the difference to the success of their relationship? Are you aware of what’s critical to make your relationship work? Many couples don’t know and so they can find themselves stuck, unhappy, lonely in their relationships.
So as you scan the points below what do you think you have missed or not understood fully? [Read more...]
With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce it’s clear the lack of relationship education in society is taking it’s toll on innocent families. With no education on how to grow successful relationships no one is surprised by these figures.
Effectively couples unskilled in relationship building are committing their whole life to a partner with no idea how to really make it work long-term and if that person is really the right fit for them.
So what are your options when things go wrong? [Read more...]
I want to say that I really do feel for all couples that are struggling to make their relationship work, it is one of the hardest places to be. I know because I too was once in this place, lost, frustrated and angry.
Why could I not make them work for me? I was young and had a lot to learn, in fact the pain was so great that I made understanding relationships my life purpose so I could help others avoid what I had gone through.
Because I know personally the pain that couples go through from my own experiences my biggest pleasure today is helping couples understand their truth. Some couples should not be together, but many are struggling not because they are wrong for each other, but because they are missing some key information. [Read more...]
This formula is so simple everyone can do it. In fact if you started a successful relationship even if today it’s not so good, whatever you and your partner once did worked.
If your relationship has problems then it’s what you practiced since things were good is what’s caused your problems.
Relationships can seem very complicated especially when they are going wrong, couples get bogged down in stuff that really isn’t important, but to them it feels critical.
If you go back to the basics of when you first meet someone, what you are looking out for is, how you feel about YOU when you are with this potential partner. [Read more...]
Many men in my sessions are surprised to discover that their partners do not communicate a large percentage of what they really feel.
Many women hold back their true feelings to protect their relationship. They know that if they communicated how they really felt their partners would not cope. These women may have usually tried communicating in the past, but their partners used emotional responses such as anger, frustration, escape to rebalance the situation. [Read more...]
If someone in a relationship is suffering from jealously they can be affected by uncontrollable feelings that create emotional responses such as anxiety and anger.
They may find themselves on red alert for threats whilst becoming possessive and very sensitive to situations, or thoughts that make them feel uncomfortable.
The major problem is that jealousy actually creates what the person fears. [Read more...]
Many people have no idea how to love themselves. You have to feel that love inside you to be able to give it, so it is critical.
Take some time with this question and learn more about you.
Many couples hold back giving through resentment and loss of respect. Discover the top ten things that created those feelings for you and share them with your partner.
You partner may be totally unaware of how you really feel so help them understand you better and see what you can learn and that could help you grow..
Many people feel that their relationship has changed them and so they lose their identity. Discover the top ten things that will help you rediscover you. Many individuals in relationships don’t share what they really need to help them be who they were designed to be.
So help your partner to know more about your dreams and passions and how they can help you to create a future that equals the real you is present in your relationship.
Divorce isn't right for everyone and so finding Divorce Lawyers that care enough to help their clients to find the right solution is critical.
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STEPHEN HEDGER: Relationship Educator & Life Coach