Relationships: Getting Back to the Basics

There are some fundamental basics that when in place will make a significant difference to any relationship.

Relationships are a place to give. Anyone who enters a relationship to take what they need will find themselves in problems very fast. Some people do give, but they give so they can get back. This causes problems too because this is a trade and anyone who trades love will find they lose passion fast. A loss of passion is a big relationship killer.

So giving love unconditionally is critical, anyone choosing to not do this is creating an uncertain future and weakening the foundations of a relationship they want to keep. This happens because as the love comes and goes fear enters the couple bit-by-bit and this builds resentment. [Read more...]

No.1 Relationship Tip For Men

Many men come in to sessions with a great head for business and more than a little lost when it comes to relationships. Some men come in hurt at how their partners have treated them, some come looking for fairness, some come looking for security, love some come wanting consistency from her.

In business the one thing that makes a business great is knowing your customer. If you know your customer, how they think what they want, and what will help them to feel in the right place to buy from you then chances are, you will win.

In relationships why not make understand your wife or girlfriend your mission too, she is far more important than any job?

No.1 Relationship Tip For Men: Don’t speak, make loving eye contact with her and just listen.

Make it your mission to understand her, listen to her without speaking. Initially ask her for whats been troubling her and then shut up and let her speak.

Your mission is to understand what you could do that would help her feel great about herself. The way she thinks and speaks is very different to you so take your time to listen to what she really means when she speaks. If she is quiet the chances are she’s not happy.

Get present with her eye-to-eye contact and get to know her again.

Most important is to take your mind off what you are getting and focus on what she needs and do this consistently.

If she gets upset love her through it, and make firm commitments, such as I will always love you, I will love you forever, I will never let you go.

She needs to know she is safe to have a relationship for life with you.

If she gets upset and calls you names don’t runaway she will see you as a boy and that means your sex life will go. If she gets upset don’t argue or defend, she will see another female within you and that mean your sex life will go.

If you fail this too many times she might go…