Feeling stuck? Fed-up of going round in circles?

Need a solution to a problem that has trapped you? It’s important to know that the thinking that helped to create a problem is not the thinking that will create a solution to the problem. Many people feeling stuck are not aware of this important fact and that’s why they go round in circles. This statement is especially true in relationships as the love, the trust , the respect dies and the relationship no longer meets the couples needs.

In this place the future for the couple dies and getting out of pain seems like the only pleasure.

There are many different types of problems, but what happens when a problem leads the person or the couple into a dead-end where one or both people are so stuck ending the relationship becomes a very real consideration?

To change the situation you have to change the way the individual or couple think about their problem that leads them to the truth. You see to become stuck they will have run out of ways to approach their problem.

The moment the individual or couple are shown different ways of thinking about their problem and a new mind map is created it can free them to approach their relationship in a safe and growth orientated way.

What’s important is the approach cannot violate the person needs and core values, it must allow the person not only to get to the truth of their situation, but to help them become more of who they really are in the process.

This process is very powerful because when relationships go wrong the couple can lose a sense of who they are which is exhausting. Both people end up emotionally empty.

Trying to fix their problems from this drained and exhausted position is almost impossible because the couple are trying to grow the relationship to a better place whilst protecting themselves from the pain the relationship has given them historically.

This process never works to solve their problems and usually shuts one or both people down until one person has really had enough.

So learning how to think so you can lead yourself to a safe place is critical. It might be your relationship or marriage is wrong for you, but until you learn the thinking you need to approach your problems you can struggle unnecessary.

Get to the truth today, learn how to think and act so it leads you to a secure solution quickly. Need help with this call now. 








About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.


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