Living the Life You Were Born to Live

Have you ever wondered who you really are? Have you wondered what your life purpose is? Do you feel lost unsure of your direction in life? Maybe you feel your relationship never feels right? Do you notice you are focused on what’s wrong a lot of the time? Or maybe you are avoiding doing things because you are fearful you will get hurt? May be you feel you have to control your outside world so you can feel ok?

If this is you then this is important to know and could change your life…

If you wanted to discover the cure to many of your life problems starting at understanding the immense power of your own values would be a wonderful beginning to a successful life in control of your direction and what happens to you.

Values are the foundation of your emotional life, in other words how you focus and experience the world. If you are not aware of what they are and how they are set-up and working within you, you may find your emotions run you.

Most people are in this place, they live in reaction to their world always moving away from painful feelings, constantly focused internally, going round-and-round in their minds looking for solutions never finding answers. They end up living in smaller and smaller worlds in their quest to control their fears.

The transformation I see clients go through when they understand their values is remarkable, the more extreme their problem the bigger the change they feel.

What the values session does is helps the client understand in detail why their life has been unwinnable. As the client goes through the process they start to learn what they have been focused on consciously and subconsciously without realising and why it works so well to hurt them.

I use this process a lot to help clients remove their fearful states so they can learn new ways to feel safe within themselves. Essentially they discover tools for putting control back into their life, but in a way that frees them to be who they were really designed to be.

This is especially powerful with couples because the individuals in the relationship discover that they can create a wonderful life for themselves no matter what, this takes the pressure off their relationship and focuses them on becoming an amazing version of themselves.

They are able to become amazing partners from this place and instantly become really attractive to be with. This results in a total change of focus towards a life they want.

Now their focus is no longer automatically directed towards destructive feelings such as loss, rejection, worthlessness, feeling unloved, anger etc .

As the person discovers how their fears had controlled their life and how irrational those fears are today, they now embrace a new ways of focusing and behaving in the world and in their relationships.

Thus freeing them to live the life they were born to live…

Would you like to experience this? If so call my office and request a values session.

About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.


  1. Estrella Mcelfresh says:

    A big thank you for your post.Much thanks again. Cool.