Men do you want to win your marriage back?

If you want to win her back then this could be for you. She might have told you she loves you, but she’s not in love with you, you may think she is having a midlife crisis. She may have told you she’s had enough and she wants a divorce.

Whatever she has said and no matter what she has done, don’t give up.

One of the key reasons men struggle when their marriage goes wrong is they use male logic to try to fix their problems.

For example: Men have you ever tried to listen to her problems, tried to fix it for her only to be in disbelief because now she is getting angry at you and all you tried to do was help her?

The reason men fail with this kind of approach is because she’s is using female logic to process what’s happening. When men learn how to apply female logic instead of male logic to a situation then he can start to understand what she is feeling and how to support her.

The differences between these two logics is vast and can help couples in crisis to understand quickly that their partner isn’t the uncaring, unloving person they feel they have ended up with.

Men I know that you love her, but unless you know how to understand why she is in so much pain, what triggered it, why she stays there and how to get her out of it, she will keep on escalating her painful feelings and keep attaching them to you.

I know this is not what you want.

So if you want to win her back you have to help her see that the connection she wants can be there with you.

As soon as men start to understand their role in the relationship and how to understand her, he will have the tools to rebuild the marriage.

So learning about her and how she works is critical to win her back to you.

If you are interested in how we help couples rebuild their marriage from trauma back to happiness please get in touch today.

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About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.