Should we divorce or should we stay together?

Perfectly reasonable question for couples who are struggling to see eye-to-eye especially if the challenge has gone on for long enough, or a sudden breach of trust has put the relationship into question.

As much as I would love to help the world just learn to love each other, some people are just not right for each other and it’s a painful fact of life.

The challenge they face is how do we know we are making the right decision? This is such an important question as so many couples break up for the wrong reasons, they end up looking for another partner totally opposite to their ex and discover that doesn’t work either this why the second marriage divorce rate is much higher than first marriage divorces. Many people also come into sessions wanting to get back a partner they have just left.

You see the mind can change our feelings and what seems right one day and can actually change the moment reality strikes and they are alone again. 

Many London Lawyers and psychologists recommend couples to me because they know I will get to the truth for that couple.

Divorce is an expensive and emotionally messy business so if two people can get to the point where they can learn if they are actually incompatible or not, then the divorce process if that’s the right solution is easier both emotionally and financially.

Many individuals are sent to me because they need to leave their marriage for all the right reasons yet they feel too scared, or guilty to take that step so they need help.

To every situation there are always answers that will free individuals to live the life they desire together, or apart.

Fixing relationships is never the blind goal for my clients because both people have to be happy together for life. If we discover it’s actually impossible for this to happen, again for all the right reasons couples do need to part.

If you are at that crossroads and need help either to leave your marriage, or to discover if leaving is the right step or not, take that step knowing you will be looked after.

About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.