Successful Marriages Don’t Just Happen…

Couples with problems all suffer from the same basic challenge. You see if a marriage is to survive then the focus of the individuals has to change.

Take a moment and think about the type of relationship that equals the one that you really want, the one that will fill you up, the one that will help you to feel all those emotions you long for.

Now ask yourself another question, who do I have to be to attract that relationship into my life?

Many people are disappointed with the way their partner behaves. They hold their partner to a high standard yet they don’t have that standard that’s high enough for themselves.

Many couples end up becoming the mirror of their partner.

I.E. Their love is conditional, they trade with each other to meet their needs. This could be resulting in loss of respect by months or years of resentment. Many have lost their passion for each other and some live day to day in a sexless marriage.

Marriages are created, they are built they are grown from two people who have raised their own standards.

So if you want to change your marriage don’t try to change your partner, be the example you expect them to be.

You cannot expect someone to change if you are not prepare to change too.

Give it a go and see what happens.

About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.