Is loving YOU something you find easy, or is it selfish and self-indulgent? What is the real cost of getting this wrong?
One of these answers causes people real problems for themselves, their relationships and their children. As you skip through this post you will start to understand why!
In fact one of these answers actually expands further than just love it expands to the way they meet their core values. In other words they don’t see the value in themselves.
The only way they feel they create the value in themselves is through giving to others.
Only when they get a reaction from others will they feel their value in this world, as you read on you’ll notice this causes a them an inner conflict because this behaviour is a contradiction of their beliefs.
If they ever feel they are not valued from anyone this will hit them hard because they already feel that’s true!
They find it hard to have a good time on their own and so keep busy, or spend time with others. They are on a constant search to feel good through the validation of others. [Read more...]