No one has the ability to MAKE someone feel a certain way. Or put another way, no one can run into someone’s brain and create a feeling for them.
If a person is having an emotional response to something that response is connected to their unique patterning, they have been developing from birth.
I hear many stories of people who blame their partner or others for how they feel.
This belief in itself is going to weaken the person’s confidence in themselves as they believe others could control them and what they feel, and they can attach those bad feelings to others.
What we feel is created by us and us alone, yes others can influence us and can connect us to deeper pain, but they are not the creators. [Read more...]