His life was falling apart. His relationship was over his business was on its knees nothing was working and he was not just depressed he suffering severe anxiety.
How do you come back from that?
When he came to me on the back of months of what he described as lost in darkness after he had to leave the marital home.
I knew what he really wanted but he had no map to achieve his goal.
He wanted his marriage back but I could see he had no internal map of how to build love he only understood how to take it – this was a very childlike model.
He was convinced his marriage was over so it didn’t form part of his brief to me to help him rebuild his life. [Read more...]