The trend I see in couples with all manner of problems is a significant decline over time in their desire to invest in their relationship. They spend more time at the office, with their kids, with friends, family or hobbies.
Of course if you don’t feed a relationship what it needs it will naturally die.
The reasons people stop investing are varied
- Circular conflicts
- Power struggles
- Inability to communicate
- Loss of intimacy
- Loss of love
- Emotional detachment
- Loss of passion
- Can’t see a future together
This list could go on and on… BUT are these the REAL reason a marriage will die? [Read more...]