What happens when a person has learnt (without knowing) a way to protect themselves from feeling emotionally hurt, but what they have learnt will never lead them to happiness?
In intimate relationships this desire to protect oneself is heighten. In intimate relationships we feel more at risk of being hurt than almost any other area of life.
In their quest to protect themselves I see many people running old outdated patterns of behaviour that was designed for a different life condition and a different time.
I see many people adopting new models of behaviour they think will protect them, but will only limit their life and make it smaller. [Read more...]