There are three relationships in any marriage, that’s right three!… and if you don’t get these right then please expect problems.
When relationships go wrong many people assume they feel bad because of their partners behaviours, or lack of them. This can of course have an significant effect in terms of their feelings. It’s critical to know what really created those feelings because a person wanting to leave a marriage is going to use their feelings as their guide to a better life.
If you want the real truth in your marriage then you’ll have to look at all three powerful influencers.
What about the other two relationships that will and do form a powerful part of the mix?
The other two relationships are the ones the two people in the marriage have with themselves. This is usually overlooked, but it forms a significant part of the journey I take couples through.
I have seen so many couples get their relationship back on track because they have discovered how to have a significantly better relationship with themselves. [Read more...]