One reason couples end up struggling with each other is that life together can become so dull, year after year of the same old everything. I see so many couples suffering because they have no real purpose for being together.
This can be upsetting as it can cause friction as they look for excitement but not necessarily together.
Not having a purpose for being together is such a dangerous trap to fall into.
Some couples only purpose for being together is they are a mum and a dad, and it’s not enough because one day the kids will leave home.
The traditional story I hear is when the couple first meet and it’s so exciting; they tell all their friends about this amazing person they’ve just met. They can’t stop thinking about each other, and so they magnify their excitement with fun things like parties, holidays stuff most couples like to do. [Read more...]