If you are not getting results in your life that you want then it’s a great idea to ask why?
The easy route is to put blame on external factors, my partner is not right for me, I don’t have enough money, I’m too fat, too thin, too old.
The challenge with this approach is it changes nothing, it keeps the person stuck and increasingly resentful that life is not what it should be.
This can lead the person to settle that this is just how life is, this makes them vulnerable and so they have to rebalance their world which could lead them to become hard and bitter over time. [Read more...]