Listening is probably the most under developed skill I experience with couples that come for my help.
Of course they know how to physically hear, but they don’t know how to truly listen to what their partner is saying.
Some of the problem is they are so focused on what they want to say in response to their partners words they are not listening to the words their partner is actually saying.
BUT this is a small part of a much bigger problem… the real challenge is this…
What are they really hearing when their partner is speaking? [Read more...]