If you want a relationship for life then what you are about to read is going to be critical to understand. If you are in marital crisis it’s so important to understand how you got there. In fact what you are about to read is for anyone who values relationships and wants to keep them, or save them.
The challenge all couples face is one or both people can develop a need to feel safe and secure in the relationship. They want to feel certain their partner will always love them, be there for them. All sounds reasonable so far…
To be clear, the challenge isn’t in the needing to feel safe and secure, the challenge is the way nearly everyone does it.
Remember the divorce rate is really high for a reason, [Read more...]