Important Life Lesson: What’s more compelling than your fears?

We all have fears that hold us back, fears that keep us stuck, fears that limit our quality of life? Fears that stop us earning more, or having rewarding relationships, fear that stop us growing.

Are you aware of what you really fear, or have you chosen to bury it?

Most people do all they can to move away from their fears, but without realising their fears then control their lives.

When recently working with a client, I asked him a question. “If I asked you to walk on a plank of wood 1 foot wide, 12 foot long that was 1 foot off the ground, would he do it for twenty british pounds?”

“No problem” he answered.

I then said “…would you still walk that plank of wood if it now bridged two buildings 100 foot up for that same twenty pounds?”

“No way!” shaking his head.

“Now if the building opposite you was on fire and your children were inside would you do it?”

“Yes of course” No hesitation!

You see when the meaning you put to your goals is more compelling than your fears then taking action and breaking through to live  free becomes a far easier decision.

The reason most people don’t break through their fears is because they don’t create a big enough reason to.

In other words they don’t create goals they can become passionate about they do what’s easy and totally miss what they are capable of.

So are you stuck in an unhappy relationship or career. Maybe you are depressed and can’t see away forward. Maybe you can’t see a future and need help building confidence to claim the life you deserve.

Whatever is holding you back is sat waiting for you to breakthrough so you can be free of your past. If you know this is NOT how life should be for you why not take that first step and call us today.

About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.