What my clients say

The biggest reward for me is seeing people following a defined path to success and achieving more than they ever thought possible. This is a mixture of individuals and couples who came to me with some serious problems

I have been working with Stephen on and off for 3 years. As a result of a horrific narcissistic relationship there have been so many issues to work on. It was almost like starting my life again as I didn’t really know who I was, what I wanted, what I liked or disliked. Stephen has helped me rebuild my life, my new interests, I have given up smoking lost weight, started a new business and found a man who wants me to be who I want to be.

I have found freedom, peace and happiness within myself this has been a massive journey and I am now practising every day to be who I really want to be.

Amy London

Stephen has been a very patient and supportive coach, guiding me through some difficult ‘blocks’ and restoring my self esteem and confidence. Through his sessions I have learnt how to nurture my internal power and use it positively to develop my self awareness and strengh.

Jane Oxford

After three failed 5 year relationships I was suffering with anxiety and had bad physical symptoms most of the time. Thoughts of another relationship would bring on panic attacks. Stephen asked me to map out what I needed from a relationship and to look at what the past relationship had given me.

I can now see exactly why my past relationships failed, my anxiety attack have gone and I’m now in a postion to move on with my life.

Lynne Aylesbury

“When I recently found out that my new boyfriend fears commitment from a past experience, I felt hopeless. My family and friends did not support my decisions to want to continue the relationship. Then I found Stephen Hedger, and my hopelessness turned into confidence. Stephen was not only a sympathetic ear, he showed me how to overcome my own fears. I now have the strength to keep the faith in the person I love most.

After several sessions with Stephen I have been able to take control of my negative emotions and find a way to be positive. Through his guidance, I have been able to turn things around in a way that has shown progress in the right direction. He was always realistic and supportive in the way that others had not been. If it wasn’t for Stephen, I may have missed out on the happiness I’ve been waiting for all of my life.”.


“Stephen has been invaluable in rebuilding our relationship. When we came to see Stephen we both agreed that this was our last attempt at fixing our relationship. We loved each other and had tried counselling for 6 months but with no progress.

The personal side of our relationship was non-existent. During the NLP coaching we both discovered what we both need to be happy and it was not what we thought. Within six 6 weeks we were back on track and making plans for our future which looked exciting again. What’s even better is now after being together for over 6 years and with a little one under 5 my husband is now dating me again.”
Andrew & Sarah UK

A clients journey

One lady who life and relationship was broken and full of problems, decided to take this journey of self-discovery. Within 3 days she went from depression and despair to hope and passion for her new life. She told me how amazed she was at the speed of what she learning about herself. What she had discovered had completely changed her view and feelings for her future.

Remember she was depressed and could not see a future when she started.

Day one:

“Stephen was absolutely fantastic with me and I will be speaking to him again soon. She was so excited with what she discovered about herself she made contact the very next day!

Day two

“Again Steve is amazingly helpful. He’s getting me to see things I cant , the wool has been pulled so to speak, brilliant, thank you! – She discovered what was making her unhappy and in plenty of detail!

Day three

“Brilliant and straight to the point! – She was beginning to wake up to her reality. The choices and actions that had made her so unhappy were now in a position for change, and boy did she change! We then made plans to help her overcome each and every issue

Her amazing journey

This is an amazing journey for her she started on a Sunday and by Tuesday her perception of a hopeless future had totally changed.

She clearly understood what was happening in her relationship that made a lack of trust a possibility for her. For her this is the start of a new exciting future, where she could take control of every decision and emotion that would lead to only one place. A successful future! She discovered unique ways of rebuilding trust in a relationship firstly with herself and what to do when the trust is broken. So excited by her new future she cannot stop telling me of her new successes by email every week. This could be you

More client comments

  • I could not make it through this time without Stephen’s advice.
  • Stephen is always helpful. I always have so many conflicting thoughts in my mind and he does a great job at sorting them out for me.
  • Once again – knows where im coming from and where i want to go , brilliant
  • This was the best session yet. Thanks Stephen.
  • Great questions food for thought what i needed to hear
  • He really gives good advice and I feel that he wants to help without judgement. A good listener aswell. Thanks
  • Stephen is very compassionate!
  • Excellent advice! Solution oriented…got straight to the issue and gave me something to work on!
About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.