Relationship Counselling Thame Oxfordshire

Are you searching for information on Relationship Counselling for your relationship problems in Thame Oxfordshire? Uncover the real reasons why you are having relationship problems today…

Stephen Hedger has been a relationship coach for the past 10 plus years helping couples with a full range of common and not so common problems.

Your session will begin with an assessment of where you think you both are. This is usually very different to where you really are as your problems are likely to feel worse because you’re living in your problems.

Please note: If your partner is not interested in coming don’t worry. When you understanding your issues you will learn how to change your behaviours and this will result in them changing theirs without knowing.

The focus of your session will be on exploring your critical needs in the context of your relationship, so we can start to understand what’s been missing for you and your partner.

If your critical needs are missing then you will have problems as you both fight to get them.

This can create a state of confusion in both of you, this causes fear for your future and what usually comes out is anger.

  • You will learn about how the sexes communicate, speak and listen in totally different ways
  • You will learn how to understand arguments
  • You will discover how to mend the trust that’s been lost through confusion
  • You will learn exactly how to meet you partners needs to secure your future together

No matter where you both are step-by-step changes are possible once you commit to making a change.

I’ll look forward to helping you.

Kind regards

Stephen Hedger

Relationship Coach

Relationship Counselling Aylesbury

Are you searching for information on Relationship Counselling for your relationship problems in Aylesbury?

Stephen Hedger has been a relationship coach for the past 10 plus years helping couples with a full range of common and not so common problems.

Your session will begin with an assessment of where you think you both are. This is usually very different to where you really are as your problems are likely to feel worse because you’re living in your problems.

Please note: If your partner is not interested in coming don‘t worry. When you understanding your issues you will learn how to change your behaviours and this will result in them changing theirs without knowing.

The focus of your session will be on exploring your critical needs in the context of your relationship, so we can start to understand what’s been missing for you and your partner.

If your critical needs are missing then you will have problems as you both fight to get them.

This can create a state of confusion in both of you, this causes fear for your future and what usually comes out is anger.

  • You will learn about how the sexes communicate, speak and listen in totally different ways
  • You will learn how to understand arguments
  • You will discover how to mend the trust that’s been lost through confusion
  • You will learn exactly how to meet you partners needs to secure your future together

No matter where you both are step-by-step changes are possible once you commit to making a change.

I’ll look forward to helping you.

Kind regards

Stephen Hedger

Relationship Coach

Relationship Counselling

Are you looking for help with your relationship? Do you believe you need relationship counselling?

Stephen Hedger is a professional relationship coach and has been helping individuals and couples gain a better understanding of how to create successful relationships for the past 10 years.

No nonsense relationship help designed for results

Stephen’s focus is on helping the couple understand the reality of where they are today and what has to change to ensure the relationship is successful.

The couple will gain a deeper understanding of who they are and what is creating their destructive behaviours for each other within the relationship.

  • The couple will learn to understand their problem
  • What behaviours need to change
  • How to build lasting trust
  • Understand each other values and needs
  • How to manage future problems and arguments
  • How to move from boring to passionate
  • How to create a compelling future
  • How to understand the meaning behind the words of the sexes – yes same words equal different meanings.

But we started off so well

Any couple starts off their life together with so much hope for the future. They believe their lives will be rich with fun, passion, security, passion, growth as they feel the most important part of their partners life.

Then one day they discover it has all gone wrong.

Do not worry what you’re going through is normal and help is on hand to help you both get back on track and contact Stephen Hedger today.

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How To Fix My relationship

Are you unhappy with your relationship & need a relationship counsellor, relationship coach or therapist to help you?

Do you love your partner, but something has changed and you’re now fearful of your future together.

It could be because of an affair, disconnection, boredom, constant arguments, lack of passion, or maybe it’s something else helping you to feel empty inside.

Have you tried and tried to make things work, but now your starting to think that splitting up is now the only option?

Before you or your partner press the Destruct Button on your relationship and collapse the world as you know it, take a moment to consider these words from Stephen Hedger Relationship Expert.

“If you focus on your problems,
all you will discover is more problems”

Dear Friend

If you are experiencing relationship problems right now I know through my own fair share of past painful experiences as a young man and through the many hundreds of people I have worked with, how painful, debilitating, and stressful these times can be.

relationship counselorI also want to congratulate you on your inner strength in deciding to discover more about yourself and your relationship despite the stress you are under.

Whatever you are feeling or experiencing right now I have a mountain of information that will help you to discover the triggers to get your relationship not only back on track, but to a new passionate level.

I expect you are feeling pretty raw right now and probably skeptical that anyone could help you make a difference.

If you could give me a few minutes of your time this could be just be that moment that changes everything for you.

Working with me will help you uncover how to use the differences in our sexes to your advantage rather than a place to fight.

  • A different species

    The first thing you will learn is that men and women are almost a totally different species trying to live together as if they are the same. This why couples experience so many problems, as today’s social conditioning is fighting with the 2 million year old instincts of the different genders and the roles they were designed for.

Men are not emotionless hairy women
& women are not over emotional beautiful men

  • The rules that drive us

    Combine this with the standards or values given to us by our parents and the volume of destructive rules we may have attached to those values without knowing.

  • Subjective meanings

    Plus the massive volume of information about relationships we hold and the subjective meanings we all attach to those words, feelings, and experiences you can forgive yourself for having a struggle with any intimate relationship. You can be sure on one thing… You are not alone!

NEXT! – Effective Communication

You will discover how to communicate your needs and desires so you partner understands them. Men and women communicate and listen in totally different ways, unless the differences are understood, problems are guaranteed. It’s likely this is happening to you right now, look at these examples…

  • Prove to me you love me!

    Men will discover that when his woman is screaming at him and blaming him for everything wrong in her life, she is not crazy and he must never run away taking her words literally, what she is really asking for is for him to prove he loves her and that he will be with her for ever.

  • Learn how to see her anger as passion!

    When men can see the passion in her words and give her what she needs whilst removing the literal meanings then this is a time to see what a truly amazing woman he has.

  • She just wants to know you care

    A man will discover that she does not always want him to fix her life she just wants him to show he cares. A woman will discover that men can only take so much communication without there being something for him to fix or the conversation having no point in his mind.

These are just a fraction of the differences that can happen in relationships.

NEXT!Building Solid Trust

How to regain and then strengthen the trust in your relationship. No matter what reason trust issues are present you will discover the root cause and how to fix it, even if your relationship is the victim of an affair.

Once the trust and heart felt understanding has been communicated on both sides then you can start to build your love again.

NEXT! How to ignite your passion

Once you both can start to see that you were missing the underlying message your partner was giving you and that you can now trust them to look after your needs, only now you are in a position to get to know each other at a more deeper level than before.

NEXT! You can start to build your common goals and plan your adventure together

Discover the many amazing personalities within your partner, and learn how to bring out the ones in yourself to create any mood you wish just purely by changing your focus.

As you start to understand more about yourself and your relationship, any fears you used to have will start to fade away. You will be left with an internal fearless energy giving you freedom to live a secure and yet passionate life together.

Now you have a small insight into what you will discover on this journey with me.

I hope that even though physically nothing has changed for you yet, you may start to see that there maybe much about yourself and your relationship which needs to be uncovered before you can confidently decide this is not the relationship for you.

“If a relationship stops growing it dies”

Working with Stephen Hedger will fast track you through the relationship maze avoiding years of trial and error and many failed relationships only to discover the same destructive patterns emerging each time.

Learn how to save and then grow your relationship today

If you would like more information or would like to make an appointment either in London W1 or in Aylesbury Buckinghamshire please call now on 0845 519 4808