We Just Don’t Talk Anymore

Is the silence in your relationship shouting “We Have A Problem”?

If you are starting to realise that you and your partner no longer communicate then this may start to ring alarm bells that something is wrong.

Is this something that just you have noticed, or have you both mentioned it.
Maybe it’s your partner that says “…we don’t seem to talk anymore”, but for you everything is ok.

  • Was there ever a time that you both talked, if so what did you talk about?
  • When did it change?
  • What made the change happen?
  • If it seems that you don’t talk anymore, what don’t you talk about?
  • What do you talk about?
  • What do you want to talk about with your partner?
  • Why do you think you partner is not talking to you?

Every relationship is different and the individuals in the relationships have different needs.

A couple not talking could be harmless comfortable familiarity or could be a sign of concern where the relationship is being filled with hidden thoughts or possibly resentment.

Only the couple themselves will know the truth.

Are you missing how things used to be… have you lost something?

Maybe you have remembered the nights when you stayed up for hours talking about life and the universe and you want that back. Maybe you used to go away for weekends or go to concerts and work and family have taken over and now the relationship is suffering.

Communicating and keeping your relationship alive and exciting is a wonderful feeling.

Maybe you need a relationship health check with
Relationship Counsellor and NLP Coach Stephen Hedger.



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