Over 90% Success in 2024

Over 90% Success

In 12 Weeks, You’ll Finally Know If It’s Fixable — And What to Do About It - even if you are the only one trying.

"Thank god we found you, we wish we had found you earlier" - Business owner

"Stephen you saved our marriage thank you" - Lawyer 

"Totally enlightening we learnt so much about each other" - Banker

Stephen you saved our marriage thank you - Lawyer

Totally enlightening we learnt so much about each other - Banker

Thank god we found you, we wish we had found you earlier - Business owner

•  "Stephen you saved our marriage thank you" - Lawyer 

•  "Totally enlightening we learnt so much about each other" - Banker

•  "Thank god we found you, we wish we had found you earlier" - Business owner

"Thank god we found you, we wish we had found you earlier" Business owner

"Stephen you saved our marriage thank you"
Lawyer

"Totally enlightening we learnt so much about each other" - Banker

Have you tried everything, but your marriage just keeps getting worse?

Are you starting to worry there’s no hope—and deep down, it just feels wrong?

The truth is, you’re not out of options. You just can’t see them yet.

Many who felt exactly the same have been relieved to discover a step-by-step way forward, through what once felt impossible.

In this context, time is not a healer so...

• Exhausted yourself with trying the wrong things

• With conversations that just go round in circles

• Trying to understand your partner 

• Thinking there is only one way to see this problem

• Panicking this might be the end

• Practising trial and error and making it worse  

What you need is simple - you'll need help that shows you how to turn off what would never work and turn on what will.

If you're tired of going in circles—giving it your best and still watching your marriage get worse—you already know something has to change.

In crisis, counselling seems like the obvious next step. And many of the individuals and couples who come to me have already been there.

Most started with traditional therapy—talking through problems, hoping insight would create change.

But after 20 years in this work, I hear the same thing over and over from those clients:

“We didn’t want to keep talking about the problem. We wanted someone to help us out of them.”

One client shared with me:

“It was like staring at a flat tire and discussing it for weeks.”

The truth?

Talking about the problem doesn’t help if you’re not addressing the root issue.

Because when deep conversations still don’t bring you closer, it’s not just a communication issue.

It’s something deeper. Foundational.

And that’s why my clients came looking for a new approach.

They didn't want therapy,

Or coaching as you know it.

They wanted specialist tailored help - a private, structured transformation process that shows you fast what’s possible. 

They wanted Clarity.

No guesswork.

No endless sessions.

Just clarity, confidence, and a practical plan to save (or honestly assess) your marriage.

They wanted a strategic Win-Win model that helped both people to safely reinvest in the relationship so it could grow.

Here is just one of many past clients perspectives you will read about as you explore...

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"Stephen has worked wonders on our long-term marriage, which was on the rocks. After 25 years, we are stronger than ever. We’ve learned so much about ourselves, each other, and how to work together as a team."

ISAAC - CEO Global Company

Frustrated couples often go round in circles — suffering, stuck, and unaware of the simple steps that could actually save their marriage.

Here’s the truth:

The problems you’re focused on aren’t the root cause.

They’re symptoms of a deeper disconnection in how the relationship functions.

In my work, we create a clear, structured framework — a bridge that helps couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and bring the relationship back to life step-by-step.

Because...

When love feels dead, it’s usually dormant not gone as so many think.

When communication fails, it’s often a skills and comprehension gap not incompatibility.

When couples feel stuck, they’re usually in survival mode so care of their partner isn't possible - in this state feelings become dormant.

Many couples who come to me believe their marriage is too far gone.

Many have already tried many forms of help and failed to make it work.

But once they follow the right process, they realise:

It’s not too late. They just never had the map.

Just like Andy...

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"Working with Stephen was the most valuable 12 hours of my life. He gave me the tools to build a deeply loving, passionate relationship. His compassion, humour, and insight truly transformed me as a man."

ANDY - CEO & FOUNDER

Stephen Hedger has spent 20 years helping individuals and couples rescue their marriages when everything seems lost.

Unlike traditional therapy, Stephen’s approach goes straight to the root of the problem rebuilding the emotional foundation that makes love, trust, and connection thrive. 

He has guided over a thousand individuals and couples through one of the most challenging times in their lives.

Through this tailor-made program, he's helped them gain the clarity, stability, and the emotional strength they needed, so they can make a safe, informed decision for themselves and their family’s future.

The question: If you were to stay together, would you both be able to create a dynamic that builds a future of connected happiness that will also give your children an effective relationship model to follow that would keep them safe?

The program is designed to help the couple learn what they are capable of achieving with the right help.

Most couples don’t see what’s really going wrong. Without a clear structure, they react emotionally running outdated patterns, unknowingly making things worse.

This program changes that by resetting their connection in a healthy way.

Using a measurable, proven framework, couples quickly identify what’s driving disconnection — and learn how to fix it.

• Men and women are learning how understand each other so they stop the negative cycles that are killing their connection.

• They learn how to disagree so their connection grows stronger.

• They learn how to build purpose and teamwork into their connection.

The result?

A win-win model that reverses resentment, reignites emotional safety, and rebuilds lasting commitment — even if connection feels lost.

Through this program Stephen Hedger is empowering individuals and couples to understand their problems so they can make the right decisions for the rest of their lives. 

Any marriage is comprised of two people with very unique histories, beliefs, needs and values who have together created a world / dynamic unlike any other couple on the planet.

The couple needs to understand these differences in a way that supports their connection and growth as an effective team.

It's critical that each person quickly learns in easy steps how to build a win-win dynamic.

Stephen Hedger has become popular with Bankers, Judges, GP’s, Business Leaders, Celebrities, Entrepreneurs, and visiting Royalty to name a few.

These couples on the edge of divorce have been keen to learn his unique insights into seeing their problems in solvable terms.

Most wanted to know if saving their marriage was actually possible, or even the right thing to do based on so much unhappiness.

These clients all arrived with an array of emotions and unique marriage problems. Some were lost, frustrated and angry and some were detached, emotionally numb with bouts of sadness. 

Is it actually possible for a relationship to be dead for years and for it to be fully reignited? 

Yes, couples that have been emotionally and sexually dead with each other for over 15 years and thought it would never work have successfully sparked their marriage back to life. 

Some say it’s never been this good ever.

Many relationships are just dormant waiting for the right focus spark of energy.

This process had to be different. 

My clients wanted - A vision - A plan - Strategy and Tools. 

My clients are time poor so they don't want to spend hours in the past or going into childhood. They simply want to know how to step forward in a meaningful way - In simple terms they just want to know how to fix the problem and fast.

So the couple will receive a growth orientated step-by-step forward thinking approach.

1. A defined plan is created for the couple.


2. The couple are given a framework for success that frees both people to be who they really are.


3. The couples are given weekly advice and steps to their chosen goal


4. The process is educational as the couple are coached on the understanding and skills they'll both need to sustain a successful passionate marriage.


5. The couple are NOT focused on their problems initially, because their problems are symptoms of their real challenges. Which is why couples go round in frustrating circles with each other.


6. The couple are taught the fundamental differences between men and women in the context of an intimate relationship so they can actually communicate and understand each other effectively.


7. The couple are given tools so they know how to overcome problems in the future - this is the framework.


8. They learn about how they work as individuals and how to raise their game in their relationship so it’s successful.


9. They learn how to repair the relationship problems fast.


10. How to plan a future together so it works


11. Most of all they learn how they can help each other to be free, to be all of who they are with each other without fear.


12. One of the biggest differences is in the results. I offer a results focused service and the couple can track with me how they are doing. 90%+ success rates and higher for couples in my 12 week program last year.

I have tried to change my partner for years and it’s impossible why do you think you can change them? 

No one wants to be changed and so the goal is to help both people become more of who they really are. It is only from this position the truth can be gained.

Shouldn’t relationships just work? 

The simple answer is no. Relationship are created, those that do not feed a relationship will starve it. The couple need skills to keep their connection secure so the relationship not just lasts but remains passionate too.

My partner feels we are incompatible could this be true?

When relationships start to fail we go into survival mode and we all change to protect ourselves. This change creates feelings of incompatibility.

Do you believe all couples can be or should be saved? 

No. Some couples are better off apart for all the right reasons. Please don’t assume this is you without getting clarity. 

Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of.

Tension, resentment and insecurities crept in over several years and gradually increased to the point that the atmosphere at home became quite hostile which affected our children and made everyone unhappy.

We had several sessions with Stephen over three months.  It’s hard to describe Stephen’s methods but he has a remarkable knowledge and perception of people, their brains and emotional responses.

The results have far exceeded our expectations.  We had hoped to get out of the unhappy rut and stop the negative spiral our relationship had developed.  Without wishing to sound weird or cheesy, Stephen appears somehow to have re focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around. 

Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him, he’s very good value!

Tim and Jill - Banker and Housewife

Dear Stephen

With your help, we got to understand each other and from that we could defuse tensions that existed in our own minds, not necessarily real for both of us.

Working on our relationship never stops, but thanks to the help we got through working with you, we are in a much better place, and a place that now will hopefully require only us to discuss, understand and resolve.

Thank you.

Everybody, you can’t always solve it yourselves. So if you need guidance, Stephen is probably the best chance you have of cutting to the quick and saving the good you know you have but need someone else to voice it.

Thank you Stephen. We are fine. We are in love, and we are growing together.

Phill and Peijie - Lawyers

Stephen

I wanted to write to say thank you. There has been a huge turning point in our relationship. We have both worked really hard at following your advice and I have started to allow myself to get close to D physically.

From where we were a few months ago – with the house on the market and divorce lawyers consulted – to where we are now feels nothing short of a miracle. We both realise that there is still so much love and so much worth saving. It was just all disguised under fear, anger, resentment, loneliness and feelings of disconnect and hopelessness.

Your skill as a coach is very special. Anyone who has tried traditional counselling and failed (as we had) should definitely try you before throwing in the towel.

With very best wishes

Grace – London - Lawyer

At the beginning of the year my relationship was at such a low point I was on the verge of breaking a 4 year relationship which left me in a state of anguish.

As a last ditch effort I made an appointment with Stephen Hedger, admittedly not holding out much hope?

Much to my surprise after as little as three meetings I found that there had been a marked improvement in my relationship and that I was fundamentally a lot more positive in salvaging the situation of hopelessness I felt I was in.

Stephen Hedger communicated with clarity and provided us with the tools not only to fix problems today but tools to fix problems for tomorrow.

I am now very happy in my relationship and look to the future with optimism.

Charles – Jane - London -CEO and Fashion Designer

My wife told me out of the blue that she loved me but wasn’t in love with me anymore. This came as a complete shock to me.

As we have a young child we agreed that we would go and see a couples counsellor – The sessions were bleak, depressing and frankly fairly poisonous – they made us both feel awful about ourselves and our relationship.

One day I found Stephen’s website and it was clear that his approach was completely different. I called his office straight away and spoke to him later that day. We only spoke for 10 minutes but those 10 minutes made more sense and gave me more hope than several hours with the previous counsellor ever did.

We moved into his premium 3 month programme. This was the best decision we made. Stephen clearly put a huge amount of thought and planning into our couples sessions and that paid massive dividends for us.

We have now reconnected and are rebuilding our marriage with huge hope for the future and a completely different understanding of ourselves, each other and our relationship.

Stephen but he has already worked a miracle for us. Day by day our relationship is getting better and better when a short time ago I was convinced it was over. I cannot thank him enough for saving my marriage and my family from a situation which seemed completely devoid of hope.

Simon - London Company Director and Consultant

Step 1. To get started Stephen is offering a FREE phone call to discover if you or you and your partner are right for this service.

Step 2. If Stephen is happy you are the right client for his program and he believes he can help you he will invite you in for a Zoom Initial Consultation. 

Step 3. If Stephen is happy to proceed you will both be invited into his tailored Marriage Breakthrough Program

If you wish to be considered please act now because your relationship problems won’t magically go away.

90%+ of the couples I have worked with using this powerfully effective Marriage Breakthrough Program have gained the goals they were after and are today living loving and connected lives together giving their children the future that’s most secure.

To gain these results the process has to be designed and so this limits the amount of clients that I can work with at any one time.

One of the reasons this 12 Session Program has been so successful to reveal the right answers is because the individuals minds becomes clear of their fears and worries because they get clarity on why they really have problems and what they can do about it. This means they are no longer helpless. This enables them to focus on a future that will really give them the fulfillment they are after.

Another concern I get is that your situation is so unique and so problematic that no matter what anyone does the future together is impossible. The reality is no problem is ever permanent and it only feels that way based on what you both know about building a successful relationship.

I want to leave you with one last thought. The most successful people on the planet act differently to the rest of the population and knowing what they did differently changed my life forever. Successful people do what’s hard first so they can make the rest of their lives easy. Unsuccessful people do what’s easy first only to find the rest of their life is hard.

So please ask yourself this question: If you were to fast forward to the end of working with me after 12 sessions and you had the answers that gave you total clarity on the direction on the rest of your life, how valuable would that be for you?

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