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Testimonial: Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of, home became quite hostile. The results have far exceeded our expectations. Stephen appears somehow to have re-focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around. Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him.
Couples can feel very stuck because they have tried and tried to make their marriage work. Getting through to their partner seems hopeless, some have even tried marriage counselling and that hasn't worked either. They don't want to stay in a failing marriage, but breaking up their family feels wrong too.
It's totally normal for an individual in a marriage to feel their love for their partner has died for good. The love is only dormant because they have detached emotionally to protect themselves. Teaching the couple how to reattach is key to getting the marriage back on track.
Typical questions are:
The answer to all these questions is yes. In fact it's important the couples don't just avoid divorce it's important that they learn to thrive.
Most couples in Stephens programs all felt their marriage was dead and had tried other counselling and therapies without success. Stephens unique approach has helped 90+% of couples successfully reconnect, today they have the knowledge they were missing that today keeps their marriage safe.
Stephen Hedger offers his clients this powerfully successful approach to fixing their marriage problems through his Marriage Breakthrough Program.
The reasons couples struggle to fix their problems is because of 3 key factors.
1. They are limited by what they believe is possible.
2. They don’t know what to do to fix their problems.
3. They don’t know how to keep the relationship alive.
The result is they are trying to fix their problems with what they think will work. They keep getting the wrong result and so assume the problems are impossible to fix, or they are incompatible.
The route to success is helping the couple learn what will really work. You will experience this live in your sessions.
The main difference is a defined strategy based on a clear plan that's created so the couple can track their progress.
Men specifically like this approach. The plan takes the couple from where they are to where they want to be in easy steps. This all takes into account the way men and women process information totally differently. Men generally are not good with feeling based chats.
Men want to know what to do to fix the problem(s)?
Note: The past only becomes important and is explored if it's clearly blocking the couples ability to create the outcome they desired.
The process is educational because the couple will be unaware of the key factors that took them from love to destruction.
Much of the problems couples face is due to the significant differences between men and women. When couples are taught these differences their expectation shifts as they both start to appreciate how different each others world really is.
The start of all work is not focused on the couples problems as this will make them feel worse at a time when things are bad enough. The focus is on rebuilding the foundations of really understanding each other.
This is effective because it shift the couple away from their problems and towards what they can do to feel better. This creates confidence as the couple learn what do that genuinely supports each others needs.
Rebuilding the foundations is critical because it rebuilds trust and respect. With trust and respect the relationship will die.
Stephen shares his story
Without strong foundations the couple will always struggle
When couples learn what to do that builds powerfully strong foundations they can quickly change their relationship and this is the start of how I'm getting fast, lasting results.
• Couples that were arguing learn how to understand each other.
• Couples whose intimacy had died were reconnected.
• Individuals that fell out of love, successful reconnected.
These stories and many more are typical once the couple learn the foundations that lead to success.
The foundation consists of many factors. Without these key factors the relationship will always struggle and for many fail.
Leaving a marriage without this knowledge can cause future repeat of the same problems...
Below are a few of the critical factors that make up the foundations
that pulls couples back from the edge of divorce
Most people with relationship problems lose a sense of who they are as they try to cope with their problems
Not understanding how your partner thinks and feels will create massive problems. Men and women naturally see the world very differently.
Couples with problems can really struggle to communicate with each other. Understanding why and how to correct this is critical.
Understanding and meeting each others needs is critical. Most couples have no idea how to do this and this leads to a loss of trust.
Growing closer from conflict is the fastest way to rebuild trust and respect the no.1 problem that leads to divorce.
Sexual connection struggles if the couple don’t meet each others needs. When the needs are not met the trust dies.
These are just a few of the influencing factors that couples will need to understand
Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of.
Tension, resentment and insecurities crept in over several years and gradually increased to the point that the atmosphere at home became quite hostile which affected our children and made everyone unhappy.
We had several sessions with Stephen over three months. It’s hard to describe Stephen’s methods but he has a remarkable knowledge and perception of people, their brains and emotional responses.
The results have far exceeded our expectations. We had hoped to get out of the unhappy rut and stop the negative spiral our relationship had developed.
Without wishing to sound weird or cheesy, Stephen appears somehow to have re focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around.
Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him, he’s very good value!
My wife told me out of the blue that she loved me but wasn’t in love with me anymore. This came as a complete shock to me.
As we have a young child we agreed that we would go and see a couples counsellor – The sessions were bleak, depressing and frankly fairly poisonous – they made us both feel awful about ourselves and our relationship.
One day I found Stephen’s website and it was clear that his approach was completely different. I called his office straight away and spoke to him later that day. We only spoke for 10 minutes but those 10 minutes made more sense and gave me more hope than several hours with the previous counsellor ever did.
We moved into his premium 3 month programme. This was the best decision we made. Stephen clearly put a huge amount of thought and planning into our couples sessions and that paid massive dividends for us.
We have now reconnected and are rebuilding our marriage with huge hope for the future and a completely different understanding of ourselves, each other and our relationship.
Stephen but he has already worked a miracle for us. Day by day our relationship is getting better and better when a short time ago I was convinced it was over. I cannot thank him enough for saving my marriage and my family from a situation which seemed completely devoid of hope.
With your help, we got to understand each other and from that we could defuse tensions that existed in our own minds, not necessarily real for both of us.
Working on our relationship never stops, but thanks to the help we got through working with you, we are in a much better place, and a place that now will hopefully require only us to discuss, understand and resolve.
Everybody, you can’t always solve it yourselves. So if you need guidance, Stephen is probably the best chance you have of cutting to the quick and saving the good you know you have but need someone else to voice it.
Thank you Stephen. We are fine. We are in love, and we are growing together.*
At the beginning of the year my relationship was at such a low point I was on the verge of breaking a 4 year relationship which left me in a state of anguish.
As a last ditch effort I made an appointment with Stephen Hedger, admittedly not holding out much hope?
Much to my surprise after as little as three meetings I found that there had been a marked improvement in my relationship and that I was fundamentally a lot more positive in salvaging the situation of hopelessness I felt I was in.
Stephen Hedger communicated with clarity and provided us with the tools not only to fix problems today but tools to fix problems for tomorrow.
I am now very happy in my relationship and look to the future with optimism.*
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on the Stephen Hedger Marriage Coach website/s are proof of our success, naturally, results may vary from person to person.
Like any form of coaching the gains are always reflective of the clients investment.
Breaking through their initial problem is half the battle
How do the couple ensure the changes will last?
All relationships need feeding. If the couple are meeting their needs whilst giving each other what they really want the relationship will grow.
The couple will be given the tools to enable them to repair the relationship fast when problems strike. This keeps resentments down and pleasure attachments up.
Couples learn how to do this so it works and becomes part of their relationship. Men and women need this differently and it’s critical to learn how.
Once the couple have rebuild their trust and respect for each other. From this position the couple can craft an exciting future together.
Once the couple understand how to communicate they are free to share and explore each other in ways that will lead to a deeper understanding.
The couple will learn on their journey how to spark the passion in each other. This becomes easy once the foundations are in place.
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Disclaimer: Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on the Stephen Hedger Marriage Coach website/s are proof of our success but results may vary from person to person.
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