STEPHEN & CLOÉ HEDGER

I am a Crisis Marriage Advisor who helps individuals and couples understand what is really happening in their marriage, challenge the patterns making things worse, and know exactly what to do next, whether they come together or one partner comes alone.

“From despair and pain a few months ago, we are the happiest we have ever been.”

— Husband, describing his marriage of almost ten years.

You are not coming to me for endless discussion or generic relationship advice.

You are coming because you are confused, stuck, and need experienced guidance.
I ask focused questions to understand the situation. 

Then I explain what I believe is happening, challenge the thinking and behaviours making things worse, and identify what needs to change next.

I do not pretend to know everything immediately. I listen first, then give you a clear and honest perspective.

I am not a passive coach who only asks questions and waits for you to find your own answers.

I am not here to take sides, decide whether you should stay together, or tell you what you want to hear.

I am not a substitute for therapy, clinical treatment, legal advice, or emergency support. If there is violence, coercive control, immediate danger, or an acute mental-health crisis, this is not the appropriate service.

For more than 20 years, I have worked privately with individuals and couples facing serious marriage crises, including emotional disconnection, betrayal, loss of trust, repeated conflict, and the possibility of divorce.

I help you understand what is really happening, challenge the patterns making things worse, and know exactly what to do next, whether you come together or one partner comes alone.