I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what works
Too many people regret divorcing once the dust has settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child who had no say in her mistake, she said to me "...but I'm
Marriage in crisis due to an affair? Learn the steps to rebuilding the trust whilst creating a brand new dynamic that future proofs the relationship.
When an affair is discovered it has the ability to create the most volcanic reactions. Infidelity has the power to shock the relationship into never
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common problems couples face is a loss of passion. If you are in a passionless marriage then I’m going to share the most common causes
Marriage in Crisis? Has your partner fallen out of love with you and you want to save your relationship? Learn the steps to helping them fall back in love with you again.
Today's post is a combination of what to do and what not to do if you want to save your relationship. The first action a couple has to take to see if
“Marriage at Risk from Destructive Triggers”
A person's out-of-control emotional triggers can have a profoundly negative effect on the quality of a couple's marriage in the end, making it an
“The Root Cause Revolution”
For two decades, I’ve watched a steady stream of highly intelligent people, industry leaders, CEOs, entrepreneurs, judges and lawyers come to me after
“Top 1% Marriages do Something Different…”
In today’s post, I’m covering successful relationships and how they differ from what most practice. So, if you are struggling, this one shift could
“I had to stop her – she was killing the marriage she wanted to keep!”
There are so many situations where I have to stop a person's behaviours towards their partner - the story you are about to read about this lady who
“The Biggest Relationship Red Flag”
Many people enter my sessions saying they saw red flags in their relationship, and they ignored them. These red flags exist because people must
“How to become a team and save your marriage from divorce”
In today's post, I'm not going to hold back because getting this part wrong means a life of unhappiness so if you have had enough this post might be
How to stop couples fighting!
I remember being in a session with a couple who were in an ongoing pattern of upset with each other. I remember saying to them, "It’s just like
“When love becomes toxic!”
Who knew there was a good and a very bad way to love someone? The bad way to love someone has fear and a need to control others at the
“We’ve NEVER been a TEAM!”
One common complaint I hear from couples in crisis is they have never been a team together. Below is a list of qualities that good team members