This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
Loss of Love? How to Save Your Relationship
Today’s post explores practical advice—what to do and what not to do—when facing the loss of emotional connection in your relationship. If your
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common issues couples face is the loss of passion. If you’re in a passionless marriage, I’m going to share the most common causes and
Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while
Too Many People Regret Divorcing Once the Dust has Settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child, who had no say in her mistake; she said to me, "...but I'm
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“He wants to leave the marriage”
Your husband has told you he wants out, he's fallen out of love, he might have suggested a separation or maybe he has left and you want to win him
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
Helping men understand their wives
A significant problem that is presented to me over and over again is the very obvious disconnect between men and women and their interpretation of
“The One Shift Everyone Must Know”
You tiptoe around each other... you wonder if there’s a way back. Most people think saving a marriage takes years of therapy, enduring many
What If You Knew the Exact Mistakes That Destroy Marriages?
Over the past 20 years, I’ve sat face-to-face with over 1,000 couples on the brink of separation. Some had been married for 40+ years.Others in
“What Do You Hear When I Speak?”
Because, it’s never about what’s been said — it’s what’s heard that shapes everything. What happened next, in that tiny cafe, mirrored exactly what
Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It.
Most couples don’t fall out of love. They fall into a pattern — a loop they don’t know how to get out of that creates the feeling the love has
The 5C Marriage Blueprint: The Foundation Every Relationship Needs to Thrive
You may not know but behind closed doors, there is a flurry of activity because we launched a FREE 5-day challenge for couples wanting to understand
The Silent Killer of Marriages: When You Stop Being You
One woman in my FREE coaching series asked a question I’ll never forget: “You’ve helped so many people in crisis. Why did you choose to teach
Emotional Intimacy in Marriage: The Key to Trust, Connection, and Lasting Passion
When emotional intimacy fades, everything else becomes harder. The affection slows down. The communication becomes surface-level. The tension
Please Save Our Marriage – My Wife has Asked for a Divorce
She said it, and this time, I knew she meant it. “I want a divorce.” These words marked the shocking moment when my wife asked for a divorce, and I