I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what works
Too many people regret divorcing once the dust has settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child who had no say in her mistake, she said to me "...but I'm
Marriage in crisis due to an affair? Learn the steps to rebuilding the trust whilst creating a brand new dynamic that future proofs the relationship.
When an affair is discovered it has the ability to create the most volcanic reactions. Infidelity has the power to shock the relationship into never
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common problems couples face is a loss of passion. If you are in a passionless marriage then I’m going to share the most common causes
Marriage in Crisis? Has your partner fallen out of love with you and you want to save your relationship? Learn the steps to helping them fall back in love with you again.
Today's post is a combination of what to do and what not to do if you want to save your relationship. The first action a couple has to take to see if
“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”
We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on
“Can our relationship be saved, or am I just prolonging the inevitable?”
For a couple who have been struggling for years they can sit in a battle between hope and despair as they ponder many questions. Can the
“Obsession”
Have you noticed that success in any area of life requires a certain amount of obsession? If you look at business owners, you will notice that they
“Some People Are Uncoachable, But It Doesn’t Mean They Can’t Change”
Every so often, a couple turns up for help. I can clearly see one person is coachable and the other isn’t. The uncoachable person may be
“We can’t Communicate, are we Doomed?”
When you're constantly struggling to communicate with your partner it can feel like the beginning of the end, but it’s not necessarily a sign your
Conflict: She never considered how he felt…
One of the most important skills couples must master is the ability to manage their own emotions so they can get the most out of their partner,
“She’s Making a Mountain out of a Molehill”
I am writing this post to the husbands who are struggling to see the gravity of their wives' problems. This problem keeps appearing in couples'
“I don’t find my partner attractive anymore!”
One of the common problems of long-term marriages is loss of attraction. Both men and women experience this problem and are unsure what to do or what
40 Reasons Why A Marriage Won’t Work
1. 70%+ of divorces are filed by women mainly due to loss of emotional security and emotional connection, both cripple their ability to trust their