Loss of Love Archives | Stephen Hedger

March 2, 2021

True Story of Regret

This is a true story of a gentleman that searched for help and thought he knew best... This gentleman and his wife took me up on my free call. It's

February 28, 2021

A Thought for Sunday

Love is an action, not a feeling How many people say I don't feel love for my partner anymore. How many say I love you, but I'm not in love with

February 18, 2021

Why is our love dying?

Couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards separation or divorce. Many of

February 5, 2021

“My partner doesn’t fulfill my emotional needs…”

It's a typical message I receive in my sessions and it creates significant pain and suffering for that individual. There are a few parts to this

January 29, 2021

My husband says he loves me but I don’t feel it

I hear this story every day. The reason I hear it is because so many people are stuck in a number of patterns that are destructive on both sides and

November 19, 2017

The Sex-Starved Relationship

So who is to say how much sex is the right amount of sex for couples in committed long-term relationships? There are many theories, but whatever the

July 10, 2017

Marriage in Crisis? Has your partner fallen out of love with you and you want to save your relationship? Learn the steps to helping them fall back in love with you again.

Today's post is a combination of what to do and what not to do if you want to save your relationship. The first action a couple has to take to see if

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first. She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

Please Save Our Marriage! – Testimonial

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Please Save Our Marriage! This was the first email I recieved from Darren and Sue, they were at breaking point. When they first entered my clinic you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. This was a couple with young children on the edge, breaking up seemed like the only option open to them… Sue […]

“He thought his life was over..!”

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is a little different. I wanted to share with you a clients words about his experience of the pain of his divorce and the process of rebuilding him and his future. Over to him… The words hit me like a hammer ~ “There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken, you never were. […]

“His emotions were sabotaging what he really wanted…”

November 3, 2019 By Stephen Hedger

What you are about to read is about is a gentleman in turmoil. He thought he had lost the girl he loved and his one-year-old son. She had left him and this connected him to his core fears, emotions that were powerful enough to sabotage him from getting the very thing he wanted. As his […]