Justin didn’t notice the exact moment things shifted with Ashley. There was no explosive argument. No dramatic exit. No clear turning
Marriage Communication Problems? You’re Probably Speaking Different Languages
If you’re facing marriage communication problems, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth no one tells you: Most couples aren’t bad at
Affair Story: A Life Unexamined
"My wife is downstairs, and I don’t want her to know I’m calling you." One of the greatest threats to any marriage in crisis is how the people who
From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.
Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems
“Stuck in Survival Mode? Here’s Why Your Marriage Feels Broken”
I have never written about this topic before, but it's an important part of transforming what seems like a hopeless marriage. It will also explain why
“Am I the problem?”
It was shocking that I ended up asking myself that question, but it led me to a thought that changed the direction of my life. Today's post is about
His Quiet Despair: In His Words…
Today's post is about how to approach what seems like impossible problems. It starts with a man, Simon, sharing his frustration about his marriage,
“When is a relationship over?”
When someone asks me this question, the answer I give is very simple, many will give you many complex answers, but the reality is very simple. I
“Some People Are Uncoachable, But It Doesn’t Mean They Can’t Change”
Every so often, a couple turns up for help. I can clearly see one person is coachable and the other isn’t. The uncoachable person may be
“The Root Cause Revolution”
For two decades, I’ve watched a steady stream of highly intelligent people, industry leaders, CEOs, entrepreneurs, judges and lawyers come to me after
“I had to stop her – she was killing the marriage she wanted to keep!”
There are so many situations where I have to stop a person's behaviours towards their partner - the story you are about to read about this lady who
“He created the wife he didn’t want!”
I want to share this today as it's a common problem that isn't commonly understood. This problem is catastrophic for any marriage and will lead