Lost Attraction Archives | Stephen Hedger

September 12, 2022

Couples are repelling each other constantly.

Women are wanting a better connection yet her behaviours repel him, men want more sexual connections unaware he is killing her desire to see him as

August 24, 2022

NEVER let your partner enter a “CRITICAL NEEDS DEFICIT!” – Mini post

Who knew each person on a planet is driven by different and very specific emotional needs? When these needs are not met couples will always experience

April 11, 2022

“Attraction Dies Stress Appears”!

Attraction is a fundamental foundation for every relationship, but I'm not convinced people are aware of how important it is in keeping a relationship

July 5, 2021

Attraction dynamics

Yesterday I touched on how I’m using attraction dynamics as means to reconnect couples. One of the foundations of a successful couples connection

June 4, 2021

Masculine, feminine and attraction

This topic of masculine and feminine seems to generate a lot of confusion, debate and disagreement. Some are not aware of it's power in intimate

February 4, 2021

Attraction dynamics

Many couples are missing the foundations they will need to keep their passion and attraction for each other alive for life. There is a significant

February 3, 2016

Attraction Attraction Attraction

What you are about to read is an important foundation that helps couples migrate from crisis to reconnection. So if saving your relationship is your

July 25, 2012

Maintaining attraction from dating through to married life

Today’s post is highly relevant to married couples as well as for single people looking for love. It is important because creating attraction is

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Client responds to testimonial

November 11, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

I’m working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post, you will see what she wanted to say. Before you get to her words, I want to set the context. I’m not quoting her word for word here, but […]

“Lawyer saves relationship alone”!

July 27, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown). I had finally moved to his […]

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first. She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]