Every couple who arrives at my door is different, but the story beneath the surface is often the same: two people lost in patterns they don’t
What Type of Couple Are You?
Every couple has problems. Yet many people believe that problems in a relationship are a sign something is wrong, or even a signal the relationship
How Couples Transformed Their Marriages with the 5C Marriage Blueprint
Every couple faces challenges, from losing intimacy, to constant conflict, to the fear of separation. What matters most is not the problems, but how
The Character Test…
Who are you when the storm hits, who do you become? Life has a way of testing us, not when things are smooth, but when they break. The truth is,
Pain Is Inevitable but…
Pain is inevitable. The key to life is who you choose to become when that pain strikes. It could be the moment you hear your partner say, “I don’t
“I’ve lost my feelings”
“I’ve lost my feelings” rarely means love is gone, it usually means your nervous system, identity, and story have adapted to long-term
The Identity Shift That Saved His Marriage
He came to me weighed down with questions about his marriage. On the surface, he had it all together, a career he loved, financial stability. The
The Real Reason Marriages Struggle: And the Skill No One Teaches You
Most people think marriage is about love, compatibility, or finding the “right person.” But here’s the reality few ever talk about: What is being
The Paradox of Blame: The Comfort That Can Quietly Sabotage & Damage Connection
I don’t know about you, but personally, I like to find ways to make life easier. One of the simplest shifts I share with clients is to look at
How She Reset 5 Years of Disconnection
She was 55 had been with her partner 58 for 5 years. For most of their relationship, they lived long-distance, weeks apart, then brief reunions.
Why Communication Isn’t Your Marriage Problem (And What Really Is)
Ask any couple in crisis what their biggest challenge is and the answer is almost always the same: “We just can’t communicate.” On the surface,
“The Untold Truth About Marriage: It Rises or Falls With Who Shows Up Each Day”
1. The Universal Desire for Change It’s almost universal: when couples hit struggles, their first thought is, “If only my partner would











