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Testimonial: Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of, home became quite hostile. The results have far exceeded our expectations. Stephen appears somehow to have re-focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around. Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him.
Couples can feel very stuck because they have tried to make their marriage work.
It's totally normal for an individual in a marriage to feel their love for their partner has died for good.
The love is only dormant because they have detached emotionally to protect themselves. Teaching the couple how to reattach is key to getting the marriage back on track.
Typical questions are:
The answer to all these questions is yes. In fact it's important the couples don't just avoid divorce it's important that they learn to thrive.
Most couples in Stephens programs all felt their marriage was dead and had tried other counselling and therapies without success. Stephens unique approach has helped over 90% of couples successfully reconnect, today they have the knowledge they were missing that today keeps their marriage safe.
The reasons couples struggle to fix their problems is because of 3 key factors.
1. They are limited by what they believe is possible.
2. They don’t know what to do to fix their problems.
3. They don’t know how to keep the relationship alive.
The result is they are trying to fix their problems with what they think will work. They keep getting the wrong result and so assume the problems are impossible to fix, or they are incompatible.
The route to success is helping the couple learn what will really work. You will experience this live in your sessions.
Stephen's clients wanted a different approach to traditional therapies. They wanted a structure way to understand and fix the problems they faced - In short they wanted tools to reignite what they had lost.
1. A Clear Strategy and Plan to Overcome Root Problems
Our approach provides a defined plan that helps couples track their progress. Men, in particular, appreciate this structured method, as it focuses on practical steps they can do rather than emotional discussions, which they often find challenging to follow.
2. Focused Problem-Solving
Couples want clear guidance on what actions to take to fix the issues. We address the past only if it’s actively preventing the couple from achieving their desired outcomes.
3. Educational Process
Couples learn the key factors that led them from love to conflict, gaining insights they were previously unaware of.
4. Understanding Differences
Many problems arise from the significant differences between men and women. Teaching these differences helps couples shift expectations and develop a deeper appreciation for each other's perspectives.
5. Building Foundations First
Instead of focusing on problems—which often makes things worse—we start by rebuilding the foundation of understanding and reconnection this has proven to be a safer way to move forward.
6. Focus on how to Build a Success Future
Shifting attention from problems to solutions creates confidence. Couples learn how to meet each other's needs effectively, making them feel more secure in the relationship.
When couples learn what to do that builds powerfully strong foundations they can quickly change their relationship and this is the start of how they are getting fast, lasting results.
• Couples that were arguing learn how to understand each other.
• Couples whose intimacy had died were reconnected.
• Individuals that fell out of love, successful reconnected.
These stories and many more are typical once the couple learn the foundations that lead to success.
The foundation consists of many factors. Without these key factors the relationship will always struggle and for many fail.
Leaving a marriage without this knowledge can cause future repeat of the same problems...
Most people with relationship problems lose a sense of who they are as they try to cope with their problems
Not understanding how your partner thinks and feels will create massive problems. Men and women naturally see the world very differently.
Couples with problems can really struggle to communicate with each other. Understanding why and how to correct this is critical.
Understanding and meeting each others needs is critical. Most couples have no idea how to do this and this leads to a loss of trust.
Growing closer from conflict is the fastest way to rebuild trust and respect the no.1 problem that leads to divorce.
Sexual connection struggles if the couple don’t meet each others needs. When the needs are not met the trust dies.
These are just a few of the influencing factors that couples will need to understand
Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of.
Tension, resentment and insecurities crept in over several years and gradually increased to the point that the atmosphere at home became quite hostile which affected our children and made everyone unhappy.
We had several sessions with Stephen over three months. It’s hard to describe Stephen’s methods but he has a remarkable knowledge and perception of people, their brains and emotional responses.
The results have far exceeded our expectations. We had hoped to get out of the unhappy rut and stop the negative spiral our relationship had developed.
Without wishing to sound weird or cheesy, Stephen appears somehow to have re focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around.
Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him, he’s very good value!
My wife told me out of the blue that she loved me but wasn’t in love with me anymore. This came as a complete shock to me.
As we have a young child we agreed that we would go and see a couples counsellor – The sessions were bleak, depressing and frankly fairly poisonous – they made us both feel awful about ourselves and our relationship.
One day I found Stephen’s website and it was clear that his approach was completely different. I called his office straight away and spoke to him later that day. We only spoke for 10 minutes but those 10 minutes made more sense and gave me more hope than several hours with the previous counsellor ever did.
We moved into his premium 3 month programme. This was the best decision we made. Stephen clearly put a huge amount of thought and planning into our couples sessions and that paid massive dividends for us.
We have now reconnected and are rebuilding our marriage with huge hope for the future and a completely different understanding of ourselves, each other and our relationship.
Stephen but he has already worked a miracle for us. Day by day our relationship is getting better and better when a short time ago I was convinced it was over. I cannot thank him enough for saving my marriage and my family from a situation which seemed completely devoid of hope.
Dear Stephen
With your help, we got to understand each other and from that we could defuse tensions that existed in our own minds, not necessarily real for both of us.
Working on our relationship never stops, but thanks to the help we got through working with you, we are in a much better place, and a place that now will hopefully require only us to discuss, understand and resolve.
Thank you.
Everybody, you can’t always solve it yourselves. So if you need guidance, Stephen is probably the best chance you have of cutting to the quick and saving the good you know you have but need someone else to voice it.
Thank you Stephen. We are fine. We are in love, and we are growing together.*
At the beginning of the year my relationship was at such a low point I was on the verge of breaking a 4 year relationship which left me in a state of anguish.
As a last ditch effort I made an appointment with Stephen Hedger, admittedly not holding out much hope?
Much to my surprise after as little as three meetings I found that there had been a marked improvement in my relationship and that I was fundamentally a lot more positive in salvaging the situation of hopelessness I felt I was in.
Stephen Hedger communicated with clarity and provided us with the tools not only to fix problems today but tools to fix problems for tomorrow.
I am now very happy in my relationship and look to the future with optimism.*
*Disclaimer:
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on the Stephen Hedger Marriage Coach website/s are proof of our success, naturally, results may vary from person to person.
Like any form of coaching the gains are always reflective of the clients investment.
Discovering the couples root problem is the primary mission that halves the battle
So how do the couple ensure the changes will last?
All relationships need feeding. If the couple are meeting their needs whilst giving each other what they really want the relationship will grow.
The couple will be given the tools to enable them to repair the relationship fast when problems strike. This keeps resentments down and pleasure attachments up.
Couples learn how to do this so it works and becomes part of their relationship. Men and women need this differently and it’s critical to learn how.
Once the couple have rebuild their trust and respect for each other. From this position the couple can craft an exciting future together.
Once the couple understand how to communicate they are free to share and explore each other in ways that will lead to a deeper understanding.
The couple will learn on their journey how to spark the passion in each other. This becomes easy once the foundations are in place.
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