In today’s post, I’m going to share a critical SuperPower that every couple must master if they are going to have a successful relationship for life.
Life is full of problems, and once you get rid of one, it’s not long before another turns up or the same one returns.
So the most essential action is to ensure that the action you take with the problems creates a win-win situation for you and your partner.
I’m not a fan of compromising because all that creates is two people only getting some of what they need.
So the real mission is to understand how the problem you both face is impacting your partner so you can engage your superpower.
So if the problem you face is having a negative impact on your partner, the process of helping them get into a positive space with your words and actions means you have the power of influence.
The power of influence is a SuperPower in relationships.
Imagine your partner is responding badly to a situation or something you have done.
Now imagine if you had the superpower of influence, and within a few moments, you could interrupt their bad emotional state and convert it into one they would like and value.
Imagine having that power no matter what the situation.
Imagine having the power to quickly shift the problems from pain into pleasure you can both share.
You see, there is no worse place on earth than to be in love with someone and have no power to influence their emotional states.
Being able to convert an angry partner into a loving one is a real skill.
Being able to help a sad partner into a joyful partner.
All these wonderful state changes are based on understanding this SuperPower of Influence.
So if you could interrupt your partners’ poor emotional state and choose a new emotional state, you know they would like.
How would they feel about you? How would you feel about yourself?
This new skill has many benefits.
It creates ‘confidence’ because you’ll know that no matter what’s happening in your marriage, you’ll know what to do.
Confidence is also an attractive quality.
This new confidence combined with the ability to help your partner feel happier will make you instantly more attractive.
This skill is learnable for those wanting the best out of their relationships.