What a lot of couples need is to RESET their marriage.
We know the dynamic many create can give them the idea they might be incompatible.
When two people end up protecting themselves from each other and can only be themselves outside of the marriage, the marriage can feel impossible to be in.
To get to this point, many couples have done so through a lack of understanding of how to be themselves and how to be a positive influencer to the relationship.
This creates a natural disconnect.
The question that remains unanswered for so many couples is.
What if we could stay connected to ourselves whilst understanding how to positively influence our partners?
What this shift create is a totally new experience.
This is the reset couples need to discover their truth.
So I helping with this gentleman with his marriage, and he said he was fearful of going back into it.
So I said to him I would never ask him to go back.
I would like to help him explore what would happen if the marriage was reset so you could both step into a new marriage in a new future that was compelling to both people.
This was his chance of creating the marriage he wanted, this time with the right guidance.
That shift of perspective was enough to help him to become curious about what he didn’t know.
He had no idea what the future could hold if it was new and reset, but he knew 100% what the past was like because he lived it every day.
Helping a couple to experience a new relationship by resetting it to be a win-win dynamic is critical for couples that have suffered a destructive history.
The objective isn’t to fix the couple’s marriage.
The objective is to help the couple understand their truth after all we are after two happy people.
Many couples end up in destructive dynamics, but that is only the truth of their distortion, not the truth of what they can create with the right information.