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“The Reset”

What a lot of couples need is to RESET their marriage.

We know the dynamic many create can give them the idea they might be incompatible.

When two people end up protecting themselves from each other and can only be themselves outside of the marriage, the marriage can feel impossible to be in.

To get to this point, many couples have done so through a lack of understanding of how to be themselves and how to be a positive influencer to the relationship.

This creates a natural disconnect.

The question that remains unanswered for so many couples is.

What if we could stay connected to ourselves whilst understanding how to positively influence our partners?

What this shift create is a totally new experience.

This is the reset couples need to discover their truth.

So I helping with this gentleman with his marriage, and he said he was fearful of going back into it.

So I said to him I would never ask him to go back.

I would like to help him explore what would happen if the marriage was reset so you could both step into a new marriage in a new future that was compelling to both people.

This was his chance of creating the marriage he wanted, this time with the right guidance.

That shift of perspective was enough to help him to become curious about what he didn’t know.

He had no idea what the future could hold if it was new and reset, but he knew 100% what the past was like because he lived it every day.

Helping a couple to experience a new relationship by resetting it to be a win-win dynamic is critical for couples that have suffered a destructive history.

The objective isn’t to fix the couple’s marriage.

The objective is to help the couple understand their truth after all we are after two happy people.

Many couples end up in destructive dynamics, but that is only the truth of their distortion, not the truth of what they can create with the right information.

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
About the author:

Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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Latest posts by Stephen Hedger (see all)
  • Case Study – “My journey to peace and looking forward to the future”  - November 12, 2025
  • “Most Couples Aren’t Broken – They’re Just Lost.” - November 7, 2025
  • “After 39 years, we finally stopped the cycle we thought we’d never escape.” - November 4, 2025

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  • Case Study – “My journey to peace and looking forward to the future” 
  • “Most Couples Aren’t Broken – They’re Just Lost.”
  • “After 39 years, we finally stopped the cycle we thought we’d never escape.”
  • Ask Stephen: “When Communication Stops: How to Lead When Your Partner Shuts Down”
  • Disconnected for over 20 years…
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  • How can we tell if we are heading for divorce?
  • Four Couples. Four Turning Points. One Common Truth.
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  • How Couples Transformed Their Marriages with the 5C Marriage Blueprint
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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Olivia

Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

Kind regards

Chipo

Success Stories

Case Study – “My journey to peace and looking forward to the future” 

November 12, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

When your relationship with yourself is fractured, every relationship you enter will reflect that fracture. This woman faced years of hidden pain that surfaced when her marriage began to collapse. What follows is her story a raw, courageous journey from survival to peace, and from trauma to self-leadership in her own words. She was keen […]

“After 39 years, we finally stopped the cycle we thought we’d never escape.”

November 4, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Stephen’s Marriage Breakthrough Program is designed to end conflict fast, rebuild safety, and live in the best part of our marriage without therapy or blame.” Question: What were the problem(s) that made you seek Stephens’ help? My wife and I had everything you could wish for in life after 39 years of marriage. Material stability […]

Disconnected for over 20 years…

October 26, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

What do you do when your marriage has been disconnected over 20 years, when you have tried many kinds of help without success. Do you give up or search for a new approach? What were the problem(s) that made you seek Stephens help?  My husband and I will have been married for 40 years next […]

Four Couples. Four Turning Points. One Common Truth.

October 10, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Every couple who arrives at my door is different, but the story beneath the surface is often the same: two people lost in patterns they don’t understand, wondering if there’s a way back. Below are four short stories of couples who reached out to me they reached breaking point and through some simple changes found […]

Why does a woman that loves her husband have multiple affairs?

July 15, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before, but this time in terrible pain, he couldn’t see a way forward and was now planning his divorce. His wife came to me looking for a […]

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Recent Posts

  • Case Study – “My journey to peace and looking forward to the future” 
  • “Most Couples Aren’t Broken – They’re Just Lost.”
  • “After 39 years, we finally stopped the cycle we thought we’d never escape.”
  • Ask Stephen: “When Communication Stops: How to Lead When Your Partner Shuts Down”
  • Disconnected for over 20 years…

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