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I Think My Marriage Is Over?

Is your marriage over, have you had enough? Maybe you partner has expressed a need to leave. No matter what side of this fence you are on it’s a very stressful place to be.

Many people with marriage troubles tell me they think they married the wrong person.

Some couples love each other, but simply struggle to get along together suffering as their problems keep coming back.

Some people feel rejected, unloved and alone. Some are full of resentment so much so they now feel detached from their partner questioning their love.

They question the point of their relationship? Many are simply going through the motions looking forward to their temporary escapes such as work, nights out with friends, or another drink they know they shouldn’t have.

The love they used to crave from their partner now comes from their children, friends or family.

Sadly the journey most couples go on naturally creates significant challenges for their chances of happiness together.

The result is really lovely people end up doing the most awful things to each other without ever knowing.

This leads them to disaster where the end of their marriage feels like the only route to happiness.

The truth is many couples can be saved from divorce once they become aware of why their marriage has really fallen over.

Many couples are so shocked at how little they really understand about their marriage. What they thought were their problems turned out to be totally different to what they thought, which is why they went round in circles.

Couples learn that male logic and female logic are poles apart and so interaction leads them to confusion and resentments.

One gentleman broke down in tears in a couples session when he realised how and why his actions had affected his wife so badly.

Another couple were stunned at how many assumptions they had both made about each others actions which were totally wrong and had nearly resulted in breaking up their family.

Couples who had lost attraction and intimacy learned how their individual behaviours made this a reality.

They both had no idea how their actions were actually leading them to divorce.

If you are thinking about leaving your marriage, or your partner has threatened to leave it’s important to discover the truth so any decision you, or your partner makes will be for the good of all.

Discover the truth in your marriage call us today on 0845 519 4808

 

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

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I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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October 26, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

What do you do when your marriage has been disconnected over 20 years, when you have tried many kinds of help without success. Do you give up or search for a new approach? What were the problem(s) that made you seek Stephens help?  My husband and I will have been married for 40 years next […]

Four Couples. Four Turning Points. One Common Truth.

October 10, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Every couple who arrives at my door is different, but the story beneath the surface is often the same: two people lost in patterns they don’t understand, wondering if there’s a way back. Below are four short stories of couples who reached out to me they reached breaking point and through some simple changes found […]

Why does a woman that loves her husband have multiple affairs?

July 15, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before, but this time in terrible pain, he couldn’t see a way forward and was now planning his divorce. His wife came to me looking for a […]

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January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce.  On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

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