I’m just going to jump into this post fast today. Without trust the marriage is dead so it’s critical to rebuild trust in a marriage fast. Trust is a foundation of any relationship.
The reason trust is so important is because without trust the couple will lose their security with each other. If the security has gone the couple will struggle to connect emotionally.
Loss of emotional connection creates intimacy challenges.
Loss of intimacy escalates security problems because many people attach love to intimacy.
If your partner has pulled love away, now you can’t trust them to give you love unconditionally so a couple will mirror each other at this point. You’re not loving me so I won’t love you either to protect me from you..
This helps couples to question their partners actions, intentions so the trust dies.
Therefore the loss of trust cycle stays alive, growing deeper and stronger and more destructive every day. If loss of trust in in your marriage your partner will be collecting proof of how they can’t trust you. When they look they will find more and more ways to lose trust and detach to protect themselves.
So if you want to rebuild trust you have to learn to forgive. The best way to forgive is to learn to understand your partner fast.
Many people say they understand that male and female is different, but then they act as if they don’t understand at all.
One of the keys to build a powerful trust is to be able to grow closer after your conflicts. This takes real understanding.
This is one of the keys to my success in my practice. Read this couples experience with me.
Want to build trust in each other that lasts a life time so it frees you both to be who you really are?
If a couple can learn how to build trust and a renewed respect for each other, then they can build a foundation of security that’s unbreakable.
But to do this they have to break their destructive patterns, the vicious cycle that destroys couples. The belief that they can’t trust their partner.
What’s worse is the couple that thinks they trust each other, but they actually don’t.
Is there trust in your relationship? Test it today?
The acid test is this. Are you able to give your love to each other without the expectation of anything in return.
If you can’t then one or both of you is hold back due to trust problems.
My advice get to the bottom of it fast because it will be constantly affecting your intimacy and emotional connection.
Without trust in a marriage your life together is going to be rocky, so make it your mission to learn how together you can build a trust and respect that lasts.