So lets look at Jim he has had two serious relationships and both those women cheated on him and now Jim is focused on whether he can ever trust a woman again.
I think most of us would sympathise with Jims situation, but what is the real problem? Trust does seem a logical place to start and overcome.
Jim tries to have another relationship, but after the initial euphoria his mind has automatically gone to protecting him and focuses him on his past problems and lack of success with women.
This focus causes problems for Jim and his new partner, he is naturally focused on protecting himself and she starts to feel untrusted, not good for her.
Neither Jim or his new partner feel good and the relationship starts to suffer. Both Jim and his new partner are focused on his trust problem and trying to solve it.
It won’t be long before real problems start, because Jim doesn’t actually have trust issues.
Jims real problem is he doesn’t know how to consciously take actions that will help her to feel amazing about herself when she is with him.
Jim needs to learn how women work and what specifically helps them to be happy. This will give Jim confidence to love her in the way she needs.
So Jims fears were in his lack of ability to become the man he has always wanted to be for the woman he loves.
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