In just one session, everything can change; everything you are about to read created changes in an instant.
You see, many people will tell you that change takes time, but it’s not true.
The fact is changes are instant. It’s the feeling safe to change that takes time.
At the core of many people’s problems is their identity. They have either lost who they are, forgotten who they are, or they never knew.
Life can feel hard or uncomfortable if you slip into the wrong identity.
When I was thinking about being a husband to Cloe, my question was, who do I have to become to be worthy of the relationship I want?
You see, I had to define that identity to become successful with her.
I was in an initial consultation with a couple last week, and this gentleman’s thinking had turned him into an identity that would collapse her identity.
This is a very hidden cycle, and it was clear they couldn’t see how both their identities were being compromised, and it would only get worse.
Getting your identity aligned with your goals, morals, desires and life mission is critical.
Identity has the power to shift everything, and your whole life can change.
I remember sitting at an event in San Diego 15 years ago. I sat there for a whole week. It was interesting, but I felt I had wasted my time.
Then one segment that took less than 30 minutes totally shifted my thinking, and it aligned me with who I had to become to really help my clients.
You see, in life, success is usually 25% mechanics and 75% who you have to become.
In a session, one gentleman shifted his identity, and he shifted his relationship from one where his wife wanted to leave him, into his wife being back to the girl who he first met because of the shift he created in himself.
I had never met his wife; I changed him so he was a better husband, and this meant she could reconnect with herself.
Life isn’t about gaining success; it’s about learning who you have to become to gain that success.
That’s the only way success lasts; you have to be able to repeat it.
A shift in identity corrected a client’s anger problem in one 20-minute session.
An identity shift corrected a childhood pattern in a businessman that enabled him to save his company and protect his family.
A couple learnt how to reignite their sexual energy in just one session by shifting both their identities.
Another lady learnt how to regain her power in her marriage by reconnecting to herself; happier people make better partners.
You see, when you know how to become an empowered version of yourself, it’s like gaining a superpower.
Life starts to make sense again; fears will go as you move towards the identity and life you want.
You simply cannot live the life you were born to live whilst living in the wrong identity.
Too many people disconnect from who they are in their marriage, and it’s devastating for both people.
It’s why I have been encouraging people to attend my sessions alone.
You have to reclaim yourself before you can reclaim your marriage or discover its truth.
This is the place where you can trust yourself and trust your thinking.
The opportunity is waiting for those ready to learn.