A guide for anyone whose marriage is under serious pressure. When a marriage reaches crisis point, the pressure to decide can feel
A Marriage Dies From Thousands of Cuts
Marriages don’t die through one argument or one break of trust; they die through thousands of cuts that are left without repair, small disconnects
We Can’t Solve Anything Without Making It Worse
This is why so many couples stay stuck. They know something is wrong, but every attempt to fix it seems to trigger another argument, another
“I Had Never Felt So Right… And Then So Ashamed.”
In my early thirties (that's 30 years ago), I made a phone call I would think about for weeks afterwards. I rang a friend to tell him exactly how
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How Can a Marriage Feel Secure and Still Feel Passionate?
For a marriage to last it needs three critical parts: 1. Emotional security, 2. Emotional connection and 3. Passion/intimacy. The challenge is
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When You No Longer Feel Like Yourself in Your Marriage
Some people care deeply about their marriage yet dread the moment their partner asks, “What’s wrong?” Not because they have nothing to say. They
Why I Created the 5Cs: The Hidden System Behind Marriage Crisis
Many couples still love each other, but the relationship they are living no longer resembles the relationship they intended to build. They care
Your Marriage May Not Need More Effort. It May Need a Different Kind.
Your efforts may be sincere, yet still leave you both feeling disconnected. The 5Cs offer a way to explore what your relationship may be
30 Behaviours That Can Create Emotional Disconnection in a Marriage
The Marriage Connection Assessment is now live As promised, I’ve created a free assessment to help you reflect on how you are currently
What 5,000 Requests for Help Have Taught Me About Marriage
For more than two decades, I have helped couples in crisis and if you are struggling I want to help you too. By the end of this article, I’ll



