Emotional disconnection rarely happens overnight. More often it grows through repeated behaviours, misunderstandings and unresolved problems that
What 5,000 Requests for Help Have Taught Me About Marriage
For more than two decades, I have helped couples in crisis and if you are struggling I want to help you too. By the end of this article, I’ll
They Were Told to Divorce. But Had the Real Problem Been Diagnosed?
“You need to divorce.” This was the message a couple had been given after nine months of getting help with their marriage. Their relationship
He Thought Their Marriage Crisis Had Just Begun. She Had Been Living in It for Years.
The night his wife told him she was no longer sure she wanted to remain married, he felt as though his life had changed in a single
Why More Conversations Aren’t Saving Your Marriage
Before you start reading this post, as a thank you, there is a gift at the end to help you further. You may have been carrying the conversation in
Why Does Trying to Save My Marriage Keep Making Things Worse?
In today’s post, you will learn why you are struggling to fix your marriage and why every attempt seems to take you back to the same place. You may be
The Relationship You Have With Yourself Determines the Partner You Become
Why meaningful marriage work can begin with one person, even when their partner is reluctant My typical clients CEOs, business owners and senior
You’re Going Round in Circles for a Reason
There is something I want you to think about because many clients are sharing these feelings with me. "Why is being married so bloody
By the Time He Realises His Marriage Is in Crisis, She May Have Been Drowning for Years
I have men and women come to me with a profound problem. They want to save their marriage, but their partner seems completely oblivious to the
Most Couples Are Trying to Fix the Wrong Problem in Their Marriage
Many people have spent years going round in painful circles either on their own or with some kind of external help that is only prolonging their
“Your Partner Is the Problem and Needs to Change”
You might be right. Your partner may need to change. They may need to become kinder, more loving, more honest, more affectionate, more
30 Self-Protection Patterns Designed to Destroy Your Marriage
How the things you do to feel safe can create the very ending you fear Most marriages do not end in one dramatic moment. They end in the smaller
