In my early thirties (that's 30 years ago), I made a phone call I would think about for weeks afterwards. I rang a friend to tell him exactly how
I’m launching the Marriage Pattern AI soon.
LAUNCHING SOONThe Marriage Pattern AI.For some time, I’ve been developing the Marriage Pattern AI, a new tool designed to help you understand what is
How Can a Marriage Feel Secure and Still Feel Passionate?
For a marriage to last it needs three critical parts: 1. Emotional security, 2. Emotional connection and 3. Passion/intimacy. The challenge is
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When You No Longer Feel Like Yourself in Your Marriage
Some people care deeply about their marriage yet dread the moment their partner asks, “What’s wrong?” Not because they have nothing to say. They
Why I Created the 5Cs: The Hidden System Behind Marriage Crisis
Many couples still love each other, but the relationship they are living no longer resembles the relationship they intended to build. They care
Your Marriage May Not Need More Effort. It May Need a Different Kind.
Your efforts may be sincere, yet still leave you both feeling disconnected. The 5Cs offer a way to explore what your relationship may be
30 Behaviours That Can Create Emotional Disconnection in a Marriage
The Marriage Connection Assessment is now live As promised, I’ve created a free assessment to help you reflect on how you are currently
What 5,000 Requests for Help Have Taught Me About Marriage
For more than two decades, I have helped couples in crisis and if you are struggling I want to help you too. By the end of this article, I’ll
They Were Told to Divorce. But Had the Real Problem Been Diagnosed?
“You need to divorce.” This was the message a couple had been given after nine months of getting help with their marriage. Their relationship
He Thought Their Marriage Crisis Had Just Begun. She Had Been Living in It for Years.
The night his wife told him she was no longer sure she wanted to remain married, he felt as though his life had changed in a single
Why More Conversations Aren’t Saving Your Marriage
Before you start reading this post, as a thank you, there is a gift at the end to help you further. You may have been carrying the conversation in


