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Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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“Home became quite hostile which affected our children…”

Tim and I went to see Stephen Hedger because after nearly twenty years together our relationship seemed to have fallen into an unhappy rut which neither of us knew how to get out of.

Like most couples at the beginning of the relationship we were blissfully happy and both felt incredibly lucky to have found each other and looked forward to sharing our lives, making a family of our own and growing old together.

Life was good to us generally but the everyday stress of work, three children and buying a house we couldn’t quite afford slowly chipped away at our relationship.  Tension, resentment and insecurities crept in over several years and gradually increased to the point that the atmosphere at home became quite hostile which affected our children and made everyone unhappy.

We were both confident that we could make our marriage happy again as the foundations were still strong but our efforts to improve the situation invariably resulted in arguments, blame, hurt and further resentment.  It was hugely frustrating and depressing for everyone so we agreed to seek some outside help.

Tim & I consider ourselves to be fairly intelligent but we were in a generally negative state of mind and were sceptical of marriage counsellors who promised so much but then spouted a load of unhelpful clichés.  We did a bit of internet research and came across Stephen’s website and arranged an appointment.

The first few sessions involved Stephen getting to know us and would often involve questions and suggestions to consider for the next session.  Apart from that the whole process was surprisingly easy and subtle.  We were sceptical at first, Tim probably more so, but felt we were moving in the right direction so stuck with it.

We had several sessions with Stephen over three or four months.  It’s hard to describe Stephen’s methods but he has a remarkable knowledge and perception of people, their brains and emotional responses.  The sessions were calm and constructive, dealing with our shared and individual values, needs and hopes.  They were sometimes emotional but Stephen subtly managed to avoid it becoming negative, as was the case in our previous efforts, there was no blame or judgement.

The results have far exceeded our expectations.  We had hoped to get out of the unhappy rut and stop the negative spiral our relationship had developed.  Without wishing to sound weird or cheesy, Stephen appears somehow to have re focused our hearts and minds and completely turned us around.  It is now three months since our last session with Stephen and I’m delighted to say our marriage is wonderful, positive, intimate, fun and happy.  We hadn’t appreciated how depressed and exhausted our marriage had become until Stephen made it better and we now get unexpected levels of energy and joy.

Tim & I feel immensely grateful to Stephen and would highly recommend him.  He may seem expensive, but for the price of a decent family holiday (until recently just a source of more bad feeling) you could get your happiness back, he’s very good value!

This couple listened and followed what I asked them to do. Each week they trusted in the process and this trust gained them an amazing result. I want to offer them my best wishes for the future.

Stephen Hedger


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About Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for consistently and naturally saving many marriages from divorce. He is a favourite of business leaders, business owners, Judges and celebrities.

Stephen runs his meetings from his office in Harley Street London and supports his global clients over Zoom.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

Please Save Our Marriage! – Testimonial

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Please Save Our Marriage! This was the first email I recieved from Darren and Sue, they were at breaking point. When they first entered my clinic you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. This was a couple with young children on the edge, breaking up seemed like the only option open to them… Sue […]

“He thought his life was over..!”

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is a little different. I wanted to share with you a clients words about his experience of the pain of his divorce and the process of rebuilding him and his future. Over to him… The words hit me like a hammer ~ “There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken, you never were. […]

“His emotions were sabotaging what he really wanted…”

November 3, 2019 By Stephen Hedger

What you are about to read is about is a gentleman in turmoil. He thought he had lost the girl he loved and his one-year-old son. She had left him and this connected him to his core fears, emotions that were powerful enough to sabotage him from getting the very thing he wanted. As his […]

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Recent Posts

  • “It’s like watching two kids squabbling”
  • A thought for Sunday
  • An Intimacy Conundrum
  • The cost of NOT hearing a cry for help
  • Triggered?

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