No matter what we do in life, what career we have how much money we earn, unless we have fulfillment in our personal relationships, life can feel very wrong.
It’s knowing that true fulfillment sits in our ability to have a successful personal relationship is what makes such a difference to my clients happiness.
Many people think that money will give them all they need, or adulation from their professional audiences is their key to happiness.
The truth is we all have two key fears, one is “we won’t be loved” and the other is “we won’t be enough”.
So when we are in conflict with our partners the emotional pain hits two very powerful fears that can have a profound affect on us. It can feel like our partner pulls their love away during conflict and we can see that we have not been enough for them due to their anger towards us.
So in the moment we lose the security the relationship needs to survive, this affects the possibility of romantic love and without this, mutual lust/desire is affected. Repeat this enough times and the person will start to have cast iron proof they are not safe emotionally this is what causes couples to move towards destruction of the relationship.
Having the tools to build a success relationship is therefore critical for any couple to either avoid or break-though their problems.
- How to we grow closer through conflict?
- How do we meet each others needs?
- How to we understand our partners emotional states?
- How can we successfully communicate?
- How do we plan a future for success?
- How do we build an unbreakable trust?
- How to we ignite the passion in the relationship so it never dies?
The challenge that couples face is even though they would probably agree that all this is important many don’t know how to put it into practice and so they keep doing what they think they know works.
I encourage my clients to become curious about what they don’t know FAST!
How does a man change the emotional state of his wife to go from dealing with the stresses and strains of her busy day to helping her to want to connect sexually with him?
How does a wife help her husband to really understand what’s going on for her emotionally?
You see we are not born with the skills to understand the opposite sex, they have to be learnt.
It doesn’t matter what relationship stage you are in, learning key personal relationship building skills is probably the best investment you will ever make, especially if it helps you avoid all the costs of divorce.
- Pre marriage: Don’t cross your fingers and hope it will be OK, be in control of making sure it will be together.
- In marital crisis: Turn your marriage around through learn and understanding what you don’t know about each other.
In an intensive 4 hours is packed with little know facts and mega strategies that teach couples about relationship dynamics between the sexes. Clients learn how to uncover the keys to a successful marriage with me in Harley Street.
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