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I was chatting with Cloé this morning…

I was chatting with Cloé this morning and I was asking her what could I write today that would really help people live successful lives and have better connected relationships.

We are passionate about each other, our lives and what we do. We have such a great time with each other, I really wanted other people my readers to feel the same. Or at least be moving towards those feelings.

You see it was not always this way for me. I was once very lost in the wrong career and with the wrong people around me.

So why is today so different what made that shift for me, that consistently makes a shift for my clients today?

Cloé and I live in constant hope for a future that’s full of all we both desire. We spend a lot of time planning, getting excited about our future and taking steps towards it, whilst valuing all we have today.

We also allow each other to be free to be all of who we are. It’s so important to give yourself permission to become all of who you are and your partner gives you space to be that person.

Many people are truly loving and giving, yet their lives and relationships have created someone that’s very different. Some are detached, some numb emotionally, some angry, frustrated, sad, in fear… the list goes on…

What these two key elements has the power to do create is a focus that aligns the person with a feeling that’s connected with themselves and a feeling of being alive inside. But with the wrong focus the person will create the reverse effect on themselves.

Many people wrongly leave relationships not because their relationship with their partner is so bad, it’s because their relationship with themselves is so poor they are always empty unable to be who their are. Many people become trapped in their own lives, which is created by them.

This process is exhausting where the person just feels wrong inside with no hope for the future. This can lead a person to make changes that are driven by their fears.

I once heard something I will never forget. There is only one kind of person that has no problems and that’s a dead person. So accept that your problems are a good sign that you are alive and their is hope whilst you heart beats and your mind works.

All of this is how I help my clients and those I love to be free to connect with their heart and  become alive inside knowing there is always a way. What’s great is you don’t have to change to do this, you simply have to learn how to become more of who you really are…

So Cloé answered my question, she said. “Share with your readers from your heart what you know works, with the hope you can connect with theirs.”

She knows that many people will read this and then do nothing and that’s just life. But for the few who are now going to take action, the hearts we have connected to who say enough is enough this is the start for you :).

 

 

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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