Have you ever considered the possibility that the world in which you live in has programmed you to behave the way you do today.
For those of you that are sceptical, ask yourself why the government has banned advertisers wanting to use subliminal advertising. The reason is it works at deep level with our minds and can change our behaviours without us knowing.
If this is possible, what have we been programmed to do and think without knowing, the simple answer is probably far more than we would like.
When you think about it you are programmed to do lots of things without thinking, or understanding why you do what you do. Some things don’t matter such as, how you always brush your teeth, or which shoe you always put on first.
BUT there are other things, important things you will have set up just like those without knowing that will be affecting your perception and behaviour in the world you live in.
How much of our own thoughts do we actually own, and how much has been given to us by our journey through life.
Put another way, what has your mind been fed? If you do not have the life you are after then you must have been fed the wrong programme to get what you don‘t want.
What’s important to learn here is, it is us that creates our life and our futures. This puts us back in control so we can start to learn what programme(s) do we need to load or feed our minds to get what we desire most.
The starting point is to not always believe your own thoughts and hype. Look at how you behave and the actions you take. This is far more telling than what you say.
A persons belief system is not fact, yet people act as if their beliefs are facts. It is this illusion that helps individuals stay stuck in lives they don’t want or create havoc in relationships they do want.
Everyone has to be open to the possibility that what they understand of their world is just one perspective and this could have all the design features to destroy the very thing they want to have or keep.
If life is not the way it should be for you then maybe now is the time to understand what is going wrong and how to change it.
If your behaviours are hurting you, you are running the wrong programme or pattern. Or put another way you are consistently behaving in a way that gives you the reverse of what you want.
Is this happening to you?
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