What you are about to read may sound obvious, but take heed, a lot of what you say you know and you should do, you probably don’t. So knowledge is really only powerful if you then decide to use it. Plus beware of the sting in the tail if you get this wrong…
Now I know that only 10% of you will actually do this and only 3-5% will actually follow through, why this happens no one knows just decide quickly if you are going to be in the 3% or the 97%.
Step one: Decide what you really want, discover what would make your life just the way it should be. Great relationship, money, career, adventures, stuff what would you really like your life to be like?
This is where the 90% give up, they think what they want is not possible, if that’s you, fair enough.
Get your wife or husband boy friend, girl friend involved, get the family involved give yourself permission to create the possibility of living an exciting exceptional life. After all it won’t happen unless you create it.
Step two: Decide what you want, and write it down
This critical because the goal becomes more powerful, plus as time passes and your goals change you can see how many of your goals you have achieved and how as you learn more about yourself and life how those goals change.
Step three: Keep your lists.
The bitter and the sweet
Many of us have a goal of becoming wealthy and the term millionaire tends to sum of this goal.
This is where the 90% will now stop reading:
The Goals: Why not create a goal to become a millionaire, or a wonderful partner, why not both?
What’s important is not what you’ll get if you do this, what important is who you’ll have to become to be able to achieve those goals.
If the money isn’t important give it to a charity,
- “The importance of life is not what you get it’s who you become.”
What are you becoming today?
Set the goal that will make something of you, when you achieve them.
Challenge yourself don’t be afraid of the pressure, stop doing what’s easy, grow that muscle that will help you create a life. The 97% live an existence unaware of what really happening, look around you at the ground hog day people who have lowered their standards through fear of not getting what they want. Is this really who you want to become?
If you don’t think you need much, then of course you don’t need to become much, some of you maybe happy not becoming much, it’s your life and your choice… BUT…!
Don’t sell out, on your values in your quest for poor goals, or no goals at all, because that will go against all you believe in, you will be the creator of your own life disasters.
An unhappy life is a result of you doing less than you are capable of and the reason this is possible is a lack of discipline, poor focus and poor goals.
Just beware of what you become in pursuit of what you think you want.
Relationship coaching starts with helping individuals understand who the core them really is and helping them understand what life they were designed to live.
Only when an individual gets this, do they start to attract all they desire.
Beware of your fears because whatever they are, they have become your goals, because whatever you focus on you’ll get.
Please choose wisely…
Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach
With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.
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