On paper this couple had it all, but they had lost what so many lose and that’s their relationship. They ended up two people that just happen to live in the same house doing their own thing.
They had slipped into a unhealthy pattern that neither knew how to break.
They had lost how to connect with who they really were and what was important to them. They had lost how to show up the relationship and be valuable to each other. They had lost how to attract each other and how to be attractive in the marriage.
Essentially they became a mum and a dad together they had lost how to be best friends and lovers.
With energy very low in both people and not holding out much hope they knew had to take action and get help.
This lady now shares her experience…
I was in a situation where I was just co-habiting, you couldn’t call it a marriage. Don’t get me wrong we had created a nice life together, but we lived separate lives and an affair could have happened on either side at any time.
Stephen was recommended to us so I decided to look him up.
Immediately I felt relaxed and at ease with Stephen. Being a female you can sometimes be a bit intimidated but this was not the case at all and I felt totally at ease.
I loved his approach.
It was very much a 2-way conversation with him. He gives you feedback and tools to work with away from his sessions.
He didn’t touch on the past or anything personal and I loved that about him, it was all about the present and how we felt now.
I can’t tell you how much better myself and my husband now are as a couple. We are totally on the same page now about everything (well most things!)
Our communication is better and we want to spend time together.
I can honestly say this time 6 months ago, on a scale of 1-10 in terms of happiness in our marriage was around a 2/3, we are now an 8 and still working to make it a 10.
Stephen has changed our lives so much for the better, he has also made me a much braver person in so many other aspects of my life including my work and other relationships.