Putting some meaning to the reason you are on this planet may or may not be important to you. Although in my experience when I have asked clients the emotional response I consistently receive is usually very telling.
If it is important to you then I hope this may help a little.
For me personally I have made it my life mission to help others create the best possible relationships with themselves and their partners. Leading the way for a decline in broken families.
It was not always this way for me!
I remember in my early career days of marketing (yes I started in marketing) feeling unable to connect honestly with the daily prospect of enticing people to buy what they didn’t really need. My thoughts went consistently out to those who saved lives, the armed forces, nurses, firemen, policemen to name a few. My life in comparison at that stage felt meaningless.
I knew that my life had no purpose. I looked at my mother and father who had far more meaning in their lives than I. My father’s trade of roofing helped to keep people safe in their homes. My mother was honoured by local government for her commitment for starting and running a non-profit club to feed and entertain the local senior citizens every Tuesday, she has done this for 35+ years.
Giving has always been in the world I grew up in, but like others I too became lost and started a quest of taking what the world had to offer with disastrous consequences. Of course I was young and I knew it all.
As the years passed it was starting to dawn on me that my life really had very little meaning and as a result I was unhappy. I remember reading “ …if you look around you right now, all you have in your life is a direct result of the decisions you have made!” It was true, and I did not like what I saw…
I was personally ashamed of how lost I had become, life had taken control of me. I had nothing I really wanted and although I was successful in marketing, I felt totally unfulfilled. I knew I have to give up marketing, but to do what?
I remember reading another booking and it said when when you discover something that makes you cry then that for you could be the start of your life purpose. For me that struck a massive cord as love was the biggest driver in my life and so I went in search of how that could manifest itself into a quest for me.
After a few painful relationship experiences I realised that I actually had no idea how relationships work and there was no one to teach me. I had even been dragged to see a counsellor by my partner at the time. Horrified at the process and how destructive it felt my path started to reveal itself, as I knew there had to be a better way to help couples through their problems.
When I discovered how to really help those in trouble with their relationship and I watched couples with families on the brink of collapse come back from stress and trauma back into love, growth and contribution…
…This for me was the fulfillment I was after, to give to those that desperately needed help and to save their family from disaster.
- This quest now helps individuals looking for love understand how to create the relationship that will be lasting and passionate for them.
- It helps couple looking for guidance before they marry, to ensure it lasts
- As well as helping the many couples who struggle with their current relationships
This is how it was for me now what about you? Fulfillment is the key to YOUR true happiness how will you find it?
No matter what you discover for you, giving will be a massive part of your journey.
To your success
Stephen Hedger
Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach
With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.
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