I want to say that I really do feel for all couples that are struggling to make their relationship work, it is one of the hardest places to be. I know because I too was once in this place, lost, frustrated and angry.
Why could I not make them work for me? I was young and had a lot to learn, in fact the pain was so great that I made understanding relationships my life purpose so I could help others avoid what I had gone through.
Because I know personally the pain that couples go through from my own experiences my biggest pleasure today is helping couples understand their truth. Some couples should not be together, but many are struggling not because they are wrong for each other, but because they are missing some key information.
What if just a few things make 80% of the difference for couples. What if all couples could quickly learn those critical steps they could take?
Most couples put so much effort into dating each other and have no idea what works and what doesn’t so they stop doing what works without knowing.
Over the years they practice doing what will ultimately kill their relationship, but they don’t mean to, they don’t know they are doing it.
Couples can assume the wrong things about each other for years.
If couples were really aware of the massive differences between male and female their perspective on their relationship and how they respond to each other would change in an instant.
But of course the differences between the sexes is just a part of the mix for success.
- Growing from conflict
- Planning a life together
- Building lasting trust
- Meeting each other core needs
All this combined with undoing the myths that society hypnotise us all with, plus one key the key to creating a relationship where you can be truly you.
That key is to understand you and what equals happiness for you. How do you create fulfilment for yourself?
If you knew the key to your relationship with yourself then helping others become successful with you would be so much easier.
These are some of the simple steps that couples can take with me to discover their truth with me.
Your relationship is valuable if what you have done so far has not worked please don’t assume it will sort it’s self out with time. Something has to change and the assumption the relationship is wrong could be the wrong one.