They are in a power struggle mainly due to hidden unmet needs. Both are feeling the other doesn't care but neither is really wanting the relationship
The Affair is Over BUT Our Problems are NOT
So what do you do when you discover your partners affair and after they stop the affair another set of problems is created? What if the expected
Healing from an affair
This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
I’m Stuck – I can’t stay and I can’t go
What does a person do when they are stuck in a life where no matter what decision they make the outcome is always unpleasant? Many people come to
“Help I don’t feel my marriage will last!”
I don't feel safe in my marriage, I don't feel loved in my marriage, I don't feel appreciated in my marriage, I don't feel secure in my marriage, I
“The Marriage Mirror”
What does a person do when they put everything into their marriage yet it still doesn't work? What do you do when you can see your partner isn't
“I’m not sure I want the relationship anymore!”
When someone shares this problem with me there is, of course, a possibility they are right and the relationship is the wrong one, but if it's blindly
Reigniting Attraction In Dead Relationships
The moment I teach the secrets to a powerful reconnection it opens the gateway to a very different relationship no matter where they started. When
We are unhappy and stuck
Couples are coming to me for help because they are in differing degrees of disconnect. Essential they are stuck unhappy and not sure what to