A couple who are not sexually connected are basically friends or roommates and for many they are not even that. I hear so many couples share how they
Masterclass series Part 2: How to create a safe connected passionate relationship
It seems for so many this ideal is reserved for the “happy ever after films” and those “lucky couples” and the harsh reality is nature never really
Masterclass series Part 1: Why has our relationship lost it’s passion?
With passion, attraction and sexual energy being the life blood of any intimate relationship it’s critical that a couple understands how to keep this
Vulnerability is it a Strength or a Weakness?
Today I’m going to talk about vulnerability. For many this word equals weakness, but if understood could it really free a persons life and become
Is it possible to think yourself out of a perfectly good marriage without knowing?
Impossible you may think, but please think again, sadly it's totally possible and is a real problem I see on a regular basis. Below is one example of
Stopping the battles and power struggles
In todays post I’m going to share a conversation I had with a couple who were in real trouble with no clear route to success. When a couple comes for
Want to save your marriage?
If an individual or couple really wants to save their marriage they have to understand how they are going to positively influence their
Infidelity, depression, suicidality
What do you do when a man enters your session telling you he's afraid he will end up killing himself. He was breaking down and didn't know how to stop
Too afraid to love…
If there was ever a list of problems that consumed the majority of couples, being ‘too afraid to love’ would be very high on that list. Sadly many
Masterclass: Security & Desire what’s the cost of getting the balance wrong?
When a couples relationship starts to die one thing will become apparent. One or both people will have lost their desire for their partner. It seems
This is powerful…
If you want to get your partner back into the relationship, if you want to understand why you feel so bad in your relationship, if you want to avoid a
This couple did what many couples do. They created a loveless marriage!
I asked a couple in a session recently how much time they had both spent on their careers. I then asked them how much time they had spent on their
