So I was speaking with this lady about her marital problems. She was just over 60 and her husband a retired CEO told her he was planning to leave
Never make anything more important than your partner – Mini Post
When anything becomes more important than your partner problems will never be far away. Too many relationships are stressed because a husband or a
Never Ignore Your Partner’s Cry for Help – Mini Post
I remember as a child, in my first ever game of hide and seek, I closed my eyes because I thought if I couldn't see them, they won't be able to see
“What’s wrong with you!?” Mini Post
I have seen so many couples come into sessions with a belief about their partners' reaction to a situation, they tell me it was clearly ridiculous,
“If you loved me you’d know…” – Mini Post
"If you loved me you'd know" I have heard this in sessions so many times and it's a significant problem for those couples. I have to STOP people
“Stop EXPECTATIONS they stress relationships” – Mini Post
People in relationships need to STOP setting their expectations of each other because it doesn't lead to harmony, it only creates disappointment,
Why Lie?
Lies decimate relationships because they break trust a foundation the relationship can't function without. Lies are interesting because some people
Affairs are not solutions to anything – Mini Post.
People in unhappy relationships can find themselves being tempted into affairs. To them, the affair has magically solved the unhappiness
“Why NAGGING has to STOP!” – Mini Post
The person nagging either wants the person they are nagging to align with the problem as they see it, or they want the person to take the action they
“Never BE your partners’ judge” – Mini Post
The fastest way to build resentment, create disconnection and move them to meet their needs outside of the relationship is to tell them you are
“Never Threaten The End of the Relationship!” – Mini Post
I'm introducing a new category into this blog. It's called "Stop and Never" Mini Post Series which should be under 200 words - I'll try... In
“What I’m looking for is not out there, it is in me…”
This quote by Helen Keller has such an important meaning to me and what I have to do to help others. You see the process of helping people back to
