One of the fastest ways to spark conflict is to assume the meaning you are attaching to your partners' words is the right meaning. I remember
“Living with a problem partner” – Mini post
If anyone wants to have a successful lasting marriage then a person's relationship with themselves is critical to master before they can ever be
“Never be a dream killer” – Mini Post
With only one life, everyone deserves to live their dream or at least have a go. One of the challenges is when a partner wants to block that dream
“STOP making YOUR partners upset about YOU!”
One of the most common patterns is when one person becomes upset and the other becomes upset because they are upset. This kind of
“Never try to change your partner”
I'm going to share why trying to change your partner is likely to kill your connection, your attraction for each other and negatively affect your sex
Retired couple in crisis “We should know better at our age!”
So I was speaking with this lady about her marital problems. She was just over 60 and her husband a retired CEO told her he was planning to leave
Never make anything more important than your partner – Mini Post
When anything becomes more important than your partner problems will never be far away. Too many relationships are stressed because a husband or a
Never Ignore Your Partner’s Cry for Help – Mini Post
I remember as a child, in my first ever game of hide and seek, I closed my eyes because I thought if I couldn't see them, they won't be able to see
“What’s wrong with you!?” Mini Post
I have seen so many couples come into sessions with a belief about their partners' reaction to a situation, they tell me it was clearly ridiculous,
“If you loved me you’d know…” – Mini Post
"If you loved me you'd know" I have heard this in sessions so many times and it's a significant problem for those couples. I have to STOP people
“Stop EXPECTATIONS they stress relationships” – Mini Post
People in relationships need to STOP setting their expectations of each other because it doesn't lead to harmony, it only creates disappointment,
Why Lie?
Lies decimate relationships because they break trust a foundation the relationship can't function without. Lies are interesting because some people
